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Out and About

Current State of Affairs

I have been asked to be reflective and journalize my feelings for a possible television documentary. Whether or not this actually happens, only time will ...
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Out and About

Way Down The Rabbit Hole

I am not going to lie. I am in what I will call my “holiday” space. During Decembers, I have very little to do. That ...
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Reflections

She’s Back – 3: Looking Forward

By Amanda J. Last time, as I chronicled my efforts to figure out exactly how ‘Amanda’ fitted into my life, I talked about an interview ...
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Story Wars

April 17, 2025, it’s go time! 5 minutes to write. 60 seconds to wow the crowd. One winner at the end. 3 writing prompts on ...
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Experiences

Normality…

I hadn’t realized the inordinate amount of time, as compared to the actual paltry return, that I put into the apparel line I recent lost. ...
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Fashion

Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Reflections

😱WHY DO PEOPLE HATE ME?🥹

I’m a transgender male to female, and I also happen to be a dad of a transgender female to male. As a former US Marine, ...
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Out and About

Kandi in The Land

April 11, 2025, was a day that offered me some time flexibility and a few ways to spread my wings a bit. I won’t lie, ...
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Experiences

A Day in the Life, Part 3

By Tina Davis It had already been a busy day on March 23, 2025, but I was not ready to stop enjoying myself. When I got ...
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Experiences

A Day in the Life, Part 2

By Tina Davis After I left the wonderful and welcoming church, I drove to a large outdoor mall in a city to the west, where ...
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Experiences

A Day in the Life, Part 1

This is exactly why the blog exists. ❤️
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Experiences

Experiences: The Cleveland International Film Festival 2025 – Day Nine, Closing Night

Sadly, the film festival drew to its conclusion, April 5, 2025. I did not work the final day and had the entire day to myself. ...
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