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Recent Posts

Indian Summer Days

Two days, two terrific outfits, great experiences and great friends! Originally posted October 21, 2021.
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Crossdressing As A Coping Mechanism

By Lisa P.
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My Favorite Mistake

A communal post...
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A Question Of Acceptance – 1 – Another Milestone

It's Tuesday, who else?
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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A Fresh Take on “The Wizard of Oz”

A Journey of Self-Discovery
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TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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When Dysphoria Hits, Don’t Ask “Why” — Ask This Instead…

A Dysphoria Hacks tactical training...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Bloodbuzz Ohio

Now what's she up to??? Originally posted October 8, 2022.
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Closing Out 2025

Last look back at the year that was.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Just What I Needed

Quite literally, just what I needed.
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Marilyn

Let's revisit a shoot from the archives, originally posted December 7, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!