Welcome To Our Community.
Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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WHEN WILL YOU LIVE VERSUS HOW YOU’RE LIVING NOW?

The good doctor is in!
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CAN SEXUAL ATTRACTION BE ACQUIRED?

Do I want to "DO" her, or "BE" her?
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How I View Sex Has Totally Changed

Saturday, thinking time!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Fun, Run, Fun

Cray, cray...
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R.E.M. Again

Sun-Dee!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!