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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

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No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

What I Am

Trying to stay out of trouble.
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Walk Away Renee

Bucket list item ✅ Originally posted May 14, 2023.
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WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Last in My Class, On Top of The World!

My marathon experience.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Memorial Day: The day I wrote a blank check… +1+1

Gwen keeps bring it!
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EVERY BLOOM TELLS ITS OWN DAMN STORY + 2

Read on...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Walk Away Renee

Bucket list item ✅ Originally posted May 14, 2023.
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Don’t Be Stoopid

An important message!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!