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Less Is More

By Amanda J.
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Middle Man

Oh, I am the middle; Yes, the middle man for you
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Casino Royale, Part 1

Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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  • The Doctor is In

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    It’s Saturday…

    Time to think!
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    Gwen’s Saturday

    It's Saturday, it's Gwen's day!
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    Gwen and Again and Again

    Another Saturday triple treat!
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    Casino Royale, Part 1

    Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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    (Not) Dressing My Age

    Lessons from Dee...
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    $5 Fashion Shoot – Dress One

    Some at-home fun!
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    (Not) Dressing My Age

    Lessons from Dee...
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    Terri and I

    Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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    Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

    I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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    Travel

    Read our travel diaries

    Events

    Read our event recaps

    Beauty

    Read our beauty posts

    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    An Open Letter to Our Wives

    This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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    Thank You For Being a Friend

    Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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    The Angel Known as My Wife

    I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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    Be…

    My mantra! My masterpiece!
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    The Cat’s Out of The Bag

    More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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    This is Hard

    Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!