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Recent Posts

Marilyn

Let's revisit a shoot from the archives, originally posted December 7, 2021.
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Meet Me in St Louis, Part 2

By our Tina!
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Kiss

Good times with great friends!
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Matrimonial Challenges – Part 2 – Keeping Schtum

Must reading for anyone in any type of relationship. Originally posted January 31, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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When Dysphoria Hits, Don’t Ask “Why” — Ask This Instead…

A Dysphoria Hacks tactical training...
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THE YIN/YANG OF GENDER DYNAMICS

The good doctor shares with us again!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Closing Out 2025

Last look back at the year that was.
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If At First…….

If at first you don't succeed.....
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Marilyn

Let's revisit a shoot from the archives, originally posted December 7, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Headshots and AI

Technology freaks me out...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!