Welcome To Our Community.
Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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The word of the day: LONELY 😔

Real.
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TURNING “WHAT IF” INTO “WATCH ME”

We continue to share Gwen's journey...
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THE COST OF HIDING

The morning I couldn't look in the mirror anymore.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Girls Day Out Means a Girl Day Out

Back in the highlife again!
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Tri The(n) Pride

I'm tired just reading her adventures, this girl has some stamina! Originally posted November 6, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Miracles

If only you believe like I believe, baby
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Stuff Is Messed Up

My walking song...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!