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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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Four Gwens for the Fourth!

Happy Independence Day!
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Double Gwen

More to think about.
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Gwen Squared

Bonus post Saturday!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dee-isms

😊 Originally posted March 12, 2023.
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Steppin’ Out

Dee beat me to the Joe Jackson reference!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!