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No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Four

Getting introspective as we continue to share our at-home fun.
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This Guy’s In Love

A big WOW evening!
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It’s Not Easy Being Ourselves

It’s not easy being ourselves but neither is it impossible! Originally posted May 30, 2022.
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Tortured Man

Welcome to Kandi's couch...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Two-For Saturday

Except that it's three...
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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

By the Time I Get To Phoenix

Sing along! By the time I get to Phoenix...... Originally posted April 30, 2023.
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Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Four

Getting introspective as we continue to share our at-home fun.
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Three

Some at-home fun!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Two

Some at-home fun!
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Girls on Film

Pose!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!