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The Last Halloween – Part 1

By Cali Part 1: The Planning I don’t work on Fridays and by the next time Halloween lands on a ‘workday’ I will have retired. ...
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Evolving

I made it back home from New York and Philadelphia just in time for my wife and her sister (who was visiting from Melbourne) to ...
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CAN’T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG? 

Love Beyond Boundaries: The True Test of the Heart  I’m sitting at a beach bar in Ocean Cay Bahamas, having a beer and just thinking. ...
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Arizona Photoshoot 1 of 3

The spectacular work of LeBeau Photography!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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CAN’T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG? 

Love Beyond Boundaries: The True Test of the Heart  I’m sitting at a beach bar in Ocean Cay Bahamas, having a beer and just thinking. ...
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EVER WONDER WHAT IT’S LIKE?

I’m on a cruise ship with thousands of people from around the world. Cozumel, Costa Maya and we’re docked at Honduras at the moment.  One ...
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Overcoming Fear in Transition: A Transgender Woman’s Journey

When we think of a person undergoing gender transition, we might imagine someone who embodies courage—a person who faces uncertainty, steps into the unknown, and ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Evolving

I made it back home from New York and Philadelphia just in time for my wife and her sister (who was visiting from Melbourne) to ...
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Fore! – Part 3

The dramatic conclusion of the Fore trilogy! Originally posted July 11, 2021.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Arizona Photoshoot 1 of 3

The spectacular work of LeBeau Photography!
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Snow Globe Photoshoot

The artistry of Jackie Bertolette.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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How to Pose for the Camera – A Kandi’s Land Seminar

My friend Nora conducts a world class seminar for us!
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Travel

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

Marie, this one's for you!
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!