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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

This Guy’s In Love

A big WOW evening!
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It’s Not Easy Being Ourselves

It’s not easy being ourselves but neither is it impossible! Originally posted May 30, 2022.
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Tortured Man

Welcome to Kandi's couch...
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By the Time I Get To Phoenix

Sing along! By the time I get to Phoenix...... Originally posted April 30, 2023.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Two-For Saturday

Except that it's three...
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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

By the Time I Get To Phoenix

Sing along! By the time I get to Phoenix...... Originally posted April 30, 2023.
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Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Three

Some at-home fun!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Two

Some at-home fun!
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Girls on Film

Pose!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress One

Some at-home fun!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!