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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

(Ain’t Nothin’ but a) House Party!

One of my two favorite parties in Cleveland, both of which I am intimately involved with!
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Hooray, I’m Cured!

Originally posted November 7, 2022.
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Got To Be Real

Finding my groove!
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Nailing It

The dramatic conclusion of the NC trip and a well-written PSA. Originally posted June 4, 2023.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN +1 +1

Read on...
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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2

Gwen's Saturday thoughts
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Nailing It

The dramatic conclusion of the NC trip and a well-written PSA. Originally posted June 4, 2023.
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Tar Heel Sun-Dee

Dee continues sharing her wonderful NC trip! Originally posted May 28, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Two

Bliss!
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Once Bitten, Twice Shy

Two, two photoshoots in one (post)!
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part One

Living my life...
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!