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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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The Power of Less: From Envy to Embodiment

I am incredibly grateful for Gwen's contributions here!
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🌟 Embracing the Full Spectrum: My Journey to Wholeness in Business and Life 🌟

Time to think...
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Time to say F*CK it and live our truth, right?

Gwensday!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Crocodile Dun-Dee

How I never thought of the post title before, I'll never know!! Originally posted February 19, 2023.
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Closing Time

Dee being Dee, fabulous as always! Originally posted January 29, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!