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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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EVERY BLOOM TELLS ITS OWN DAMN STORY + 2

Read on...
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The Yin and Yang of Transitioning: Mental Femme Energy Meets My Stubborn Male Meat Suit 😂+ 1 + 1

Our Saturday triple dip.
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Two-For Saturday

Except that it's three...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

An American Girl

Been a bit, but she's back!
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It’s Not Easy Being Green

Dee even makes me tired from all that she does! Originally posted May 7, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Three

Fun!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Five

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Two

Our fashion show moves on...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!