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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

A Gwen and A Gwen and A Gwen

Triple the fun!
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The Company of Others (Like Me)

Nothing in life is ever easy, especially in THIS life.
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Victoria Get Together on Vancouver Island – Day Three

By Trish White
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Just One Experience After Another

If just one of these things happened in a day, you would be thrilled! But they kept coming, all evening long! Originally posted February 10, ...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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A Gwen and A Gwen and A Gwen

Triple the fun!
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Four Gwens for the Fourth!

Happy Independence Day!
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Double Gwen

More to think about.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dee-isms

😊 Originally posted March 12, 2023.
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Steppin’ Out

Dee beat me to the Joe Jackson reference!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!