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Recent Posts

Girlfriend

The adventure continues! Originally posted October 23, 2022.
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WHAT’S YOUR “F*@K IT” POINT?

Thank you Gwen!
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More Marilyn

Let's revisit this shoot from the archives, originally posted December 8, 2021.
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You Are Not Regressing — You Are Integrating

A Dysphoria Hacks Tactical Method
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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WHAT’S YOUR “F*@K IT” POINT?

Thank you Gwen!
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You Are Not Regressing — You Are Integrating

A Dysphoria Hacks Tactical Method
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IT SUCKS TO BE US! 😔

Raw honesty, what else would you expect?
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Girlfriend

The adventure continues! Originally posted October 23, 2022.
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Hail To The Orange

So many Dee-cisions.... Originally posted October 16, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

More Marilyn

Let's revisit this shoot from the archives, originally posted December 8, 2021.
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Just What I Needed

Quite literally, just what I needed.
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Marilyn

Let's revisit a shoot from the archives, originally posted December 7, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!