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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Middle Man

Oh, I am the middle; Yes, the middle man for you
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Casino Royale, Part 1

Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Yet Another Interview With…Me!

Someone else actually published me.... As you can see, this was from April 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Gwen’s Saturday

It's Saturday, it's Gwen's day!
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Gwen and Again and Again

Another Saturday triple treat!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Casino Royale, Part 1

Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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(Not) Dressing My Age

Lessons from Dee...
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress One

Some at-home fun!
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(Not) Dressing My Age

Lessons from Dee...
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Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!