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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

What About The Children: Amanda J.

The first in a series. Originally posted May 29, 2023.
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Dedicated Follower of Fashion

(S)He thinks (s)he is a flower to be looked at; And when (s)he pulls his (her) frilly nylon panties right up tight; (S)He feels a ...
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Dee-Va Las Vegas 2026, Mon-Dee

Loving the Dee puns...
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GWEN DON’T BLEND and two more…

As Andrea True once said, "More, More, More".
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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GWEN DON’T BLEND and two more…

As Andrea True once said, "More, More, More".
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💋THE TRANSGENDER ROLLER COASTER🎢 + +

Gwen's observations...
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ADDITION BY SUBTRACTION… Kinda🦄🌈 + Much More!

Gwen's thoughts...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dee-Va Las Vegas 2026, Mon-Dee

Loving the Dee puns...
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Dee-Va Las Vegas–Pregame

Look who stopped by!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Dedicated Follower of Fashion

(S)He thinks (s)he is a flower to be looked at; And when (s)he pulls his (her) frilly nylon panties right up tight; (S)He feels a ...
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Betcha by Golly, Wow

There's a spark of magic in your eyes; Candyland (Kandi's Land) appears each time you smile
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Squire’s Castle Photoshoot Two

Part Deux
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Squire’s Castle Photoshoot One

First of two posts
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!