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Recent Posts

Me and Mrs. Jones

We got a thing goin' on...
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Hail To The Orange

So many Dee-cisions.... Originally posted October 16, 2022.
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IT SUCKS TO BE US! 😔

Raw honesty, what else would you expect?
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Indian Summer Days

Two days, two terrific outfits, great experiences and great friends! Originally posted October 21, 2021.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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IT SUCKS TO BE US! 😔

Raw honesty, what else would you expect?
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A Fresh Take on “The Wizard of Oz”

A Journey of Self-Discovery
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TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Hail To The Orange

So many Dee-cisions.... Originally posted October 16, 2022.
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Bloodbuzz Ohio

Now what's she up to??? Originally posted October 8, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Just What I Needed

Quite literally, just what I needed.
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Marilyn

Let's revisit a shoot from the archives, originally posted December 7, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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All our favorite things

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