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Recent Posts

Burning Down the House

Genius
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Retail Therapy, Part 1

Another fun day for our SunDee! Originally posted January 15, 2023.
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ARE YOU A FREAK-A-ZOID!

Embracing My Inner Freak: Proud, Unapologetic, and Slightly Unhinged!
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Dazz

Disco...jazz....
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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ARE YOU A FREAK-A-ZOID!

Embracing My Inner Freak: Proud, Unapologetic, and Slightly Unhinged!
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ARE YOU LIBERAL OR LIBERATED?

Grab a cup of coffee and read on!
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WHEN WILL YOU LIVE VERSUS HOW YOU’RE LIVING NOW?

The good doctor is in!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Retail Therapy, Part 1

Another fun day for our SunDee! Originally posted January 15, 2023.
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Come Together

...over me.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!