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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Two

Bliss!
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Once Bitten, Twice Shy

Two, two photoshoots in one (post)!
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Waiting For a Girl Like You

I've been waiting for a girl like you, to come into my life
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The Woman in the Mirror

Originally posted October 13, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN +1 +1

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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2

Gwen's Saturday thoughts
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WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Tar Heel Sun-Dee

Dee continues sharing her wonderful NC trip! Originally posted May 28, 2023.
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Boss Lady

I've posted hundreds of Dee photos, all fabulous. But this one is truly special! Now, on with the show.... Originally posted May 21, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Two

Bliss!
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Once Bitten, Twice Shy

Two, two photoshoots in one (post)!
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part One

Living my life...
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!