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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Catch These Fists

Shouting out a great song which has nothing to do with this day.
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The Dark Clouds Are Looming

Originally posted July 19, 2022.
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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Don’t Be Stoopid

An important message!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Don’t Be Stoopid

An important message!
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An American Girl

Been a bit, but she's back!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!