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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

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No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

All By Myself

All by myself, Don't wanna be, All by myself, Anymore (but I do...)
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What is Wrong With Me?

Me figuring out nothing...
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The Wisdom of Amanda

Originally posted April 6, 2023.
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Eminence Front

Come and join the party, dressed to kill!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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MONOLITH OF MONSTERS + (1×2)

Saturday thoughts.
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THE DULL ACHE THAT NEVER GOES AWAY + 1 + 1

Gwenagain...
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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Tootsie

Another Dee-lightful experience! Originally posted June 11, 2023.
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Running Man

Identities have been changed to protect the innocent.... Originally posted June 25, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Black & White Version

Our noir version...
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How Long

...has this been going on.
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Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress

Okay, so it wasn't a dress, but there was a lot of black...
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Smoking Gun

Steppin' up my game?
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!