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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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🌟 Embracing the Full Spectrum: My Journey to Wholeness in Business and Life 🌟

Time to think...
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Time to say F*CK it and live our truth, right?

Gwensday!
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THROUGH WHOSE LENS?

Why the Same Chaos Looks So Different to Us All
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Closing Time

Dee being Dee, fabulous as always! Originally posted January 29, 2023.
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Bar Hopping

Dee pours us a cold one..... Originally posted December 18, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!