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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Squire’s Castle Photoshoot One

First of two posts
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The DADT Dilemma

Originally posted May 5, 2023.
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Show and Tell

Just a game I play...
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“I’m Brendan’s Mom”

Dee introduces a new feature! Originally posted July 2, 2023.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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ADDITION BY SUBTRACTION… Kinda🦄🌈 + Much More!

Gwen's thoughts...
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MONOLITH OF MONSTERS + (1×2)

Saturday thoughts.
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THE DULL ACHE THAT NEVER GOES AWAY + 1 + 1

Gwenagain...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

“I’m Brendan’s Mom”

Dee introduces a new feature! Originally posted July 2, 2023.
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Tootsie

Another Dee-lightful experience! Originally posted June 11, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Squire’s Castle Photoshoot One

First of two posts
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Black & White Version

Our noir version...
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How Long

...has this been going on.
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Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress

Okay, so it wasn't a dress, but there was a lot of black...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!