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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Waiting For a Girl Like You

I've been waiting for a girl like you, to come into my life
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The Woman in the Mirror

Originally posted October 13, 2022.
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Pump It Up

Gearing up for two spectacular events I am beyond blessed to participate in.
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Tar Heel Sun-Dee

Dee continues sharing her wonderful NC trip! Originally posted May 28, 2023.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN +1 +1

Read on...
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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2

Gwen's Saturday thoughts
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WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Tar Heel Sun-Dee

Dee continues sharing her wonderful NC trip! Originally posted May 28, 2023.
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Boss Lady

I've posted hundreds of Dee photos, all fabulous. But this one is truly special! Now, on with the show.... Originally posted May 21, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Part One

Living my life...
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!