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Lisa – To the Moon and Back

Lisa P. July 15, 2025 8 Comments

Lisa always makes us think a bit.... Originally posted October 25, 2021.

Living My Life-ish

Kandi July 14, 2025 8 Comments

Out.

What I Was Able to Accomplish in 2021 – My Turn

Dee July 13, 2025 6 Comments

Well done, Dee! Obviously, a Dee-peat.

FROM FEAR TO FIERCE 🌈

Gwen Patrone July 12, 2025 5 Comments

I wanted to share something personal about my journey. As a trans woman, especially one who’s tall—like a real tall glass of water—I know what ...

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FROM FEAR TO FIERCE 🌈

July 12, 2025 5 Comments

I wanted to share something personal about my journey. As a trans woman, especially one who’s tall—like a real tall glass of water—I know what ...

GOD GAVE ME A LITTLE EXTRA GRACE

July 5, 2025 3 Comments

Sometimes I find myself daydreaming about the life I might have lived if I’d found Gwen—my second self, some may say my true self—at an ...

WE’RE MORE THAN A SECRET 🤐

June 28, 2025 5 Comments

Why Trans People Deserve Real Connection Hi everyone, I want to talk about something that so many of us in the trans and crossdressing communities ...

What I Was Able to Accomplish in 2021 – My Turn

Dee July 13, 2025 6 Comments

Well done, Dee! Obviously, a Dee-peat.

Lemons and Lemonade

Dee July 6, 2025 4 Comments

Never a dull moment.... Originally posted May 8, 2022.

Glorious Fashion

A Different Look

May 18, 2025 6 Comments

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve. Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

May 12, 2025 7 Comments

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...

Refresh(ing)

April 27, 2025 5 Comments

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

March 31, 2025 4 Comments

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!

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The Odd Couple

Fiona Black September 16, 2024 11 Comments

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...

The Power of “She”

Kandi January 6, 2025 11 Comments

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.

The Angel Known as My Wife

Kandi January 28, 2025 16 Comments

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...

Rules of The Road

Kandi September 9, 2024 19 Comments

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.

Thank You For Being a Friend

Kandi November 23, 2023 20 Comments

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.

Top Ten List!

Kandi December 31, 2024 10 Comments

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.

An Open Letter to Our Wives

Kandi January 18, 2024 37 Comments

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.

Sacrifice

Kandi March 20, 2024 6 Comments

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.

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