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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Dee Does Hawaii

Our jet-setting Dee, takes us somewhere warm! Originally posted November 27, 2022.
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THROUGH WHOSE LENS?

Why the Same Chaos Looks So Different to Us All
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Some Girls

It's the f'n Stones, for goodness' sake.
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Travelogue – Gulfport, MS Day Three: Flying Pretty….Ugly

The longest day of my life......
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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THROUGH WHOSE LENS?

Why the Same Chaos Looks So Different to Us All
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THE PRICE OF LIBERATION FROM THE COMFORTABLE

Guess who?
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The word of the day: LONELY 😔

Real.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dee Does Hawaii

Our jet-setting Dee, takes us somewhere warm! Originally posted November 27, 2022.
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Girls Day Out Means A Girl Day Out–Part 2

Gettin' at it again!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Miracles

If only you believe like I believe, baby
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Stuff Is Messed Up

My walking song...
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Travel

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Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!