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Recent Posts

Matrimonial Challenges – Part 2 – Keeping Schtum

Must reading for anyone in any type of relationship. Originally posted January 31, 2022.
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Couldn’t Get it Right

More cowbell...
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Closing Out 2025

Last look back at the year that was.
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TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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When Dysphoria Hits, Don’t Ask “Why” — Ask This Instead…

A Dysphoria Hacks tactical training...
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THE YIN/YANG OF GENDER DYNAMICS

The good doctor shares with us again!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Closing Out 2025

Last look back at the year that was.
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If At First…….

If at first you don't succeed.....
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Headshots and AI

Technology freaks me out...
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Nailed It!

Oh my...
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!