Welcome To Our Community.
Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

Help us keep this community going.  If you shop Amazon, all we ask is that you click the link below and help us pay the bills!  Costs you nothing but does help us very much.

Recent Posts

Sometimes, All You Can Do Is Laugh

Amanda, need I say more? Originally posted May 16, 2022.
Read More →

Leave Me Alone

Thinking out loud...
Read More →

WWYWTW*

You'll find out what that means, read on! Originally posted March 26, 2023.
Read More →

Gwen and Again and Again

Another Saturday triple treat!
Read More →
The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

Buy Gwen's Books

Check out Dysphoria Hacks
by clicking above!

Gwen and Again and Again

Another Saturday triple treat!
Read More →

A Gwen and A Gwen and A Gwen

Triple the fun!
Read More →

Four Gwens for the Fourth!

Happy Independence Day!
Read More →
Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

WWYWTW*

You'll find out what that means, read on! Originally posted March 26, 2023.
Read More →

The Big Easy

Our world traveler representing!
Read More →
On Style

Glorious Fashion

Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
Read More →

Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
Read More →

Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
Read More →

Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
Read More →

Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
Read More →

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
Read More →

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
Read More →

The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
Read More →

Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
Read More →

Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
Read More →

Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
Read More →

The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
Read More →

All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!