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Crazy Lucky

A tremendously underappreciated band.
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My Lucky Thirteen

It's Mandy Tuesday!
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Love is Alive

The Dream Weaver
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Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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  • The Doctor is In

    Dr. Gwen Patrone

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    Gwen Time!

    Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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    It’s Saturday…

    Time to think!
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    Gwen’s Saturday

    It's Saturday, it's Gwen's day!
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    Casino Royale, Part 2

    The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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    Casino Royale, Part 1

    Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    $5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Two

    Some at-home fun!
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    Girls on Film

    Pose!
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    $5 Fashion Shoot – Dress One

    Some at-home fun!
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    (Not) Dressing My Age

    Lessons from Dee...
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    Travel

    Read our travel diaries

    Events

    Read our event recaps

    Beauty

    Read our beauty posts

    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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    Thank You For Being a Friend

    Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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    This is Hard

    Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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    A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

    My masterpiece.
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    The Power of “She”

    One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!