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Recent Posts

Boss Lady

I've posted hundreds of Dee photos, all fabulous. But this one is truly special! Now, on with the show.... Originally posted May 21, 2023.
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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2

Gwen's Saturday thoughts
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Easter Sunday (On a Snowy March Saturday)

Originally posted March 24, 2022.
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The Genesis of Kandi! Part 2

Get your seat belt on, we're going into the way back machine!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2

Gwen's Saturday thoughts
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WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Memorial Day: The day I wrote a blank check… +1+1

Gwen keeps bring it!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Boss Lady

I've posted hundreds of Dee photos, all fabulous. But this one is truly special! Now, on with the show.... Originally posted May 21, 2023.
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Walk Away Renee

Bucket list item ✅ Originally posted May 14, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!