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Touchdowns and Touch-Ups

The Epic Parallel Universe of Football and Makeup Application  It’s NFL championship Sunday tomorrow. My mind wanders, as it often does, asking myself how can ...
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“You’re Always Pretty When You Come in Here”

Fewer personal outings and Contributors with less to say means one thing: repeats! A favorite outing from July 2021.
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The Endless Struggle

Why?
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A Decade in The Books

Objects in mirror are closer than they appear
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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Touchdowns and Touch-Ups

The Epic Parallel Universe of Football and Makeup Application  It’s NFL championship Sunday tomorrow. My mind wanders, as it often does, asking myself how can ...
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THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM 

I would like to address a controversial and sensitive topic that many shy away from due to its potential to spark intense debates.  However, I ...
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A NIGHT TO REMEMBER

A Dual Gender Story  The neon lights flickered outside Third Moon Tavern, casting a colorful glow against the rain-soaked pavement. It was a cozy establishment ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Back Dee-own Under

My (Aussie) wife and I have returned to the Melbourne area, where we own an apartment in a Melbourne suburb. We’ve come here in January ...
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Birthday Boys – Part 2

Originally posted September 19, 2021.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Marilyn

This represents the final photoshoot I have removed from the blog. I have done so because my evolution continues, and these have become dated. They ...
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Barb Stitzer Photoshoot

On January 3, 2022, Barb and I did quite a shoot! http://barbstitzer.com/
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Shoes – Let’s Be Honest

By Jocelyn Johnson The last item we put on before we head out the door is a pair of shoes. The shoes must match our ...
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This is Trans

A Photo Journey of Awareness and Love
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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!