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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Vive La Difference

Mandy day!
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Out of My League

Warning Will Robinson: This is a long one...
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Steppin’ Out

Dee beat me to the Joe Jackson reference!
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Double Gwen

More to think about.
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Recent Comments

The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Double Gwen

More to think about.
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Gwen Squared

Bonus post Saturday!
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Gwen x 2

Gwen's Saturday words.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Steppin’ Out

Dee beat me to the Joe Jackson reference!
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Happy Valentine’s Dee!

I come from a land Down Under... Originally posted March 5, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!