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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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Time to say F*CK it and live our truth, right?

Gwensday!
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THROUGH WHOSE LENS?

Why the Same Chaos Looks So Different to Us All
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THE PRICE OF LIBERATION FROM THE COMFORTABLE

Guess who?
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Bar Hopping

Dee pours us a cold one..... Originally posted December 18, 2022.
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Dee Does Hawaii

Our jet-setting Dee, takes us somewhere warm! Originally posted November 27, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!