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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Betcha by Golly, Wow

There's a spark of magic in your eyes; Candyland (Kandi's Land) appears each time you smile
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Dee-Va Las Vegas–Pregame

Look who stopped by!
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💋THE TRANSGENDER ROLLER COASTER🎢 + +

Gwen's observations...
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Toughness

A Kandi's Land essay
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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💋THE TRANSGENDER ROLLER COASTER🎢 + +

Gwen's observations...
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ADDITION BY SUBTRACTION… Kinda🦄🌈 + Much More!

Gwen's thoughts...
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MONOLITH OF MONSTERS + (1×2)

Saturday thoughts.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dee-Va Las Vegas–Pregame

Look who stopped by!
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“I’m Brendan’s Mom”

Dee introduces a new feature! Originally posted July 2, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Betcha by Golly, Wow

There's a spark of magic in your eyes; Candyland (Kandi's Land) appears each time you smile
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Squire’s Castle Photoshoot Two

Part Deux
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Squire’s Castle Photoshoot One

First of two posts
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Black & White Version

Our noir version...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!