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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

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No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Outdoor Photoshoot – Black & White Version

Our noir version...
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How Long

...has this been going on.
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Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress

Okay, so it wasn't a dress, but there was a lot of black...
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In Search of Equilibrium

Originally posted December 21, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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THE DULL ACHE THAT NEVER GOES AWAY + 1 + 1

Gwenagain...
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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN +1 +1

Read on...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Running Man

Identities have been changed to protect the innocent.... Originally posted June 25, 2023.
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Nailing It

The dramatic conclusion of the NC trip and a well-written PSA. Originally posted June 4, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Black & White Version

Our noir version...
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How Long

...has this been going on.
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Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress

Okay, so it wasn't a dress, but there was a lot of black...
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Smoking Gun

Steppin' up my game?
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!