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Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress

Okay, so it wasn't a dress, but there was a lot of black...
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In Search of Equilibrium

Originally posted December 21, 2022.
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Smoking Gun

Steppin' up my game?
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Running Man

Identities have been changed to protect the innocent.... Originally posted June 25, 2023.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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THE DULL ACHE THAT NEVER GOES AWAY + 1 + 1

Gwenagain...
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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN +1 +1

Read on...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Running Man

Identities have been changed to protect the innocent.... Originally posted June 25, 2023.
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Nailing It

The dramatic conclusion of the NC trip and a well-written PSA. Originally posted June 4, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Long Cool Woman in a Black Dress

Okay, so it wasn't a dress, but there was a lot of black...
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Smoking Gun

Steppin' up my game?
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Three

Make-a-me happy!
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Two

Bliss!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!