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Secretary Wanted

The role I was born to play!
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Friendship

An amazing week of our fabulous sisters sharing (and me staying out of the way)!
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My Odyssey

I am simply honored to run this post...
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When Security Becomes Insecurity

Great story!
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ARE YOU AN “INNY” OR AN “OUTY”? 

Food for thought
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STARVE YOUR FEAR😱 FEED YOUR FEMME🌈

Yours truly has been busy of late, so we are doing a Gwen's Greatest Hits Saturday this week. She has already sent me the next
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The Allure of Eleanor

Dual Gender: A Love Story Beyond Appearances
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Art on The Square

Happiness all over this one!! And how about this picture...
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Then and Now

A blast from the past!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Feeling The Love

If you get to do this once, you are blessed! My big mouth has created another job in fashion for myself.
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D-I-Y. Dee It Yourself. Shopping, Part 2

More schoolin' from Sun-Dee!
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D-I-Y Dee-It-Yourself Shopping Part 1

More great advice!
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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

This is my personal manifesto. If you read nothing else here, you need to read this.
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Life

A friend, truly hurting in dealing with the effects of the pandemic and her need to be herself, reached out to me recently. Here is
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Favorites of The 2020 (Selfie) Photo Shoots

Life has taken control of late, so I bring you a little look back at 2020 and the art of survival.
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Things I Have Learned

Let's look back at this Kandi's Land classic!
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here.......
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay has made a real difference for many.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

Marie, this one's for you!
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Trips + Excursions

Explore our Travel Diaries

Out and About

Girls Weekend in Kelowna 

To Clare: You are simply awesome! So proud of you!
Travel

By the Time I Get To Phoenix

Sing along! By the time I get to Phoenix......
Out and About

Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion!
Experiences

Travelogue: Keystone Conference 2023 – Day Four

I am still trying to get caught up on my beauty sleep.
Experiences

Travelogue: Keystone Conference 2023 – Day Three

My amazing experience continues...
We got the invite

Events

Cornucopia 2023 +

I am a very lucky woman and cannot remember what I had for breakfast. Getting old both is awesome (I know more than ever) and
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Plexus Summer Soiree 2023

Just a wonderful day!
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Solstice 2023

Hands down, my favorite event of the year!
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Recent Experiences

Enjoy your Independence Day holiday!!
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Overcoming Life’s Challenges

Got bad news, get back out there, girl!
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Nailed it!

This outfit was special!
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Beauty

Hair, Makeup, Nails, and More

This Week’s Advice: Get a Makeover

More Great A-Dee-Vice!
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Do’s and Don’ts of Crossdressing – Part Two

This series of posts, including last week's, have been viewed by almost 345,000 eyeballs on her Flickr page!
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Do’s and Don’ts of Crossdressing – Part One

Another Cristy post, another wonderful discussion to ensue...
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Tales from a Shoe Addict: The Four-One-One on Shoes

Another Cali masterclass!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!
Out and About

Living out in the World

Secretary Wanted

The role I was born to play!
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Art on The Square

Happiness all over this one!! And how about this picture...
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Down The Rabbit Hole

This post is definitely a PG-13 post...
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“Three Times In One Month”

Miss Ubiquitous 2023
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Human Rights Campaign Dinner 2023

Yesterday, Jocelyn asked what is your favorite photograph of yourself. Here you go! My best work ever.
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Take Two

Two days, one outfit, let me explain....
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Acting Up

Whew........
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Oh, What a Night!

Frankie Valli is smiling somewhere...
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Walking Girl

Dee and Michelle are at it again! Let's all take a look.....again (it's a Dee-peat)!.
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Casual Kandi

Just the woman next door, out and about!
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