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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Last in My Class, On Top of The World!

My marathon experience.
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The Genesis of Kandi! Part 1

Let's go back in time, before COVID, before the Kandi you know was just feeling her oats....
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Catch These Fists

Shouting out a great song which has nothing to do with this day.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Memorial Day: The day I wrote a blank check… +1+1

Gwen keeps bring it!
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EVERY BLOOM TELLS ITS OWN DAMN STORY + 2

Read on...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Don’t Be Stoopid

An important message!
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An American Girl

Been a bit, but she's back!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Six

I enjoyed that!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!