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Recent Posts

Lisa – To the Moon and Back

Lisa always makes us think a bit.... Originally posted October 25, 2021.
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Living My Life-ish

Out.
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What I Was Able to Accomplish in 2021 – My Turn

Well done, Dee! Obviously, a Dee-peat.
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FROM FEAR TO FIERCE 🌈

I wanted to share something personal about my journey. As a trans woman, especially one who’s tall—like a real tall glass of water—I know what ...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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FROM FEAR TO FIERCE 🌈

I wanted to share something personal about my journey. As a trans woman, especially one who’s tall—like a real tall glass of water—I know what ...
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GOD GAVE ME A LITTLE EXTRA GRACE

Sometimes I find myself daydreaming about the life I might have lived if I’d found Gwen—my second self, some may say my true self—at an ...
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WE’RE MORE THAN A SECRET 🤐

Why Trans People Deserve Real Connection Hi everyone, I want to talk about something that so many of us in the trans and crossdressing communities ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

What I Was Able to Accomplish in 2021 – My Turn

Well done, Dee! Obviously, a Dee-peat.
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Lemons and Lemonade

Never a dull moment.... Originally posted May 8, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!