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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

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No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Vive La Difference

Mandy day!
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Out of My League

Warning Will Robinson: This is a long one...
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Steppin’ Out

Dee beat me to the Joe Jackson reference!
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Double Gwen

More to think about.
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  • The Doctor is In

    Dr. Gwen Patrone

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    Double Gwen

    More to think about.
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    Gwen Squared

    Bonus post Saturday!
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    Gwen x 2

    Gwen's Saturday words.
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    Steppin’ Out

    Dee beat me to the Joe Jackson reference!
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    Happy Valentine’s Dee!

    I come from a land Down Under... Originally posted March 5, 2023.
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    Terri and I

    Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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    Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

    I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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    Marilyn Shoot 2021

    Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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    Five Skirts

    This is a straight picture post.
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    Travel

    Read our travel diaries

    Events

    Read our event recaps

    Beauty

    Read our beauty posts

    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    Who We Are

    Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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    Reasons vs. Excuses

    Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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    Thank You For Being a Friend

    Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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    Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

    Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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    The Angel Known as My Wife

    I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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    A Golden Flash For A Day!

    All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!