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Recent Posts

STEM Goes Red for Girls! (2022)

I am blessed. Originally posted March 23, 2022.
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Three

Some at-home fun!
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Crazy Lucky

A tremendously underappreciated band.
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My Lucky Thirteen

It's Mandy Tuesday!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Gwen’s Saturday

It's Saturday, it's Gwen's day!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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Casino Royale, Part 1

Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Three

Some at-home fun!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Two

Some at-home fun!
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Girls on Film

Pose!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress One

Some at-home fun!
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Travel

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Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!