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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

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Recent Posts

Acceptance?

This post is about being accepted by the world as well as a friend who shares how she accepted herself. Same word, two different interpretations.
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I’ve Escaped From Prison

Our girl in the UK, always making us think! Originally posted April 25, 2022.
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Counterbalancing These Feelings

One of my better essays.... Most recently posted September 8, 2022.
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The Big Easy

Our world traveler representing!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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A Gwen and A Gwen and A Gwen

Triple the fun!
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Four Gwens for the Fourth!

Happy Independence Day!
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Double Gwen

More to think about.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

The Big Easy

Our world traveler representing!
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Dee-isms

😊 Originally posted March 12, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!