Welcome To Our Community.
Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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The Yin and Yang of Transitioning: Mental Femme Energy Meets My Stubborn Male Meat Suit 😂+ 1 + 1

Our Saturday triple dip.
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Two-For Saturday

Except that it's three...
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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

It’s Not Easy Being Green

Dee even makes me tired from all that she does! Originally posted May 7, 2023.
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By the Time I Get To Phoenix

Sing along! By the time I get to Phoenix...... Originally posted April 30, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Four

Getting introspective as we continue to share our at-home fun.
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Three

Some at-home fun!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Two

Some at-home fun!
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Girls on Film

Pose!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!