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Recent Posts

“Two-Spirit”?

Lisa writes so much better and articulates my feeling like I wish I could. Originally posted March 28, 2022.
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Miracles

If only you believe like I believe, baby
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StrAIght Talk – An Unexpected Twist

We have our best people working on AI.
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Stuff Is Messed Up

My walking song...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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THE COST OF HIDING

The morning I couldn't look in the mirror anymore.
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WHAT’S YOUR “F*@K IT” POINT?

Thank you Gwen!
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You Are Not Regressing — You Are Integrating

A Dysphoria Hacks Tactical Method
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Chicago

The incredible journey continues.... Originally posted October 30, 2022.
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Girlfriend

The adventure continues! Originally posted October 23, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Miracles

If only you believe like I believe, baby
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Stuff Is Messed Up

My walking song...
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More Marilyn

Let's revisit this shoot from the archives, originally posted December 8, 2021.
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Just What I Needed

Quite literally, just what I needed.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!