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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

EVERY BLOOM TELLS ITS OWN DAMN STORY + 2

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No AI!

As REM once said, It's The End of The World as We Know It...
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Five

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Two

Our fashion show moves on...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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EVERY BLOOM TELLS ITS OWN DAMN STORY + 2

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The Yin and Yang of Transitioning: Mental Femme Energy Meets My Stubborn Male Meat Suit 😂+ 1 + 1

Our Saturday triple dip.
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Two-For Saturday

Except that it's three...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

It’s Not Easy Being Green

Dee even makes me tired from all that she does! Originally posted May 7, 2023.
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By the Time I Get To Phoenix

Sing along! By the time I get to Phoenix...... Originally posted April 30, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Five

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Two

Our fashion show moves on...
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit One

Another day not able to get out, making lemonade out of lemons...
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Four

Getting introspective as we continue to share our at-home fun.
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!