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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

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Recent Posts

What Could Possibly Go Wrong?

By Amanda J.
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Slither

As good as it gets!
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Retail Therapy, Part 2

I'll bet you were wondering how this one turned out. Originally posted February 5, 2023.
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LOOKING FROM THE OUTSIDE IN

🌸 To anyone looking in from the outside, trying to understand…
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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LOOKING FROM THE OUTSIDE IN

🌸 To anyone looking in from the outside, trying to understand…
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ARE YOU A FREAK-A-ZOID!

Embracing My Inner Freak: Proud, Unapologetic, and Slightly Unhinged!
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ARE YOU LIBERAL OR LIBERATED?

Grab a cup of coffee and read on!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Retail Therapy, Part 2

I'll bet you were wondering how this one turned out. Originally posted February 5, 2023.
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Retail Therapy, Part 1

Another fun day for our SunDee! Originally posted January 15, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Travel

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Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!