Welcome To Our Community.
Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

An American Girl

Been a bit, but she's back!
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It’s Not Easy Being Green

Dee even makes me tired from all that she does! Originally posted May 7, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Five

The best of this shoot?
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Six

Some at-home fun!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Four

Love me some fashion!
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One Piece Photoshoot – Outfit Three

Fun!
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!