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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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TURNING “WHAT IF” INTO “WATCH ME”

We continue to share Gwen's journey...
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THE COST OF HIDING

The morning I couldn't look in the mirror anymore.
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WHAT’S YOUR “F*@K IT” POINT?

Thank you Gwen!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Tri The(n) Pride

I'm tired just reading her adventures, this girl has some stamina! Originally posted November 6, 2022.
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Chicago

The incredible journey continues.... Originally posted October 30, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Marilyn Noir

Let's revisit this shoot from our archives, originally posted December 9, 2021.
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Miracles

If only you believe like I believe, baby
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Stuff Is Messed Up

My walking song...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!