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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Love is Alive

The Dream Weaver
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Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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The Rising

Come on up for the rising
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Gwen’s Saturday

It's Saturday, it's Gwen's day!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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Casino Royale, Part 1

Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Two

Some at-home fun!
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Girls on Film

Pose!
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress One

Some at-home fun!
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(Not) Dressing My Age

Lessons from Dee...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Friends

My proudest post ever. Originally posted April 13, 2022.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!