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Recent Posts

Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Three

Make-a-me happy!
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Breathing vs. Fine Dining

Food for thought...
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(Ain’t Nothin’ but a) House Party!

One of my two favorite parties in Cleveland, both of which I am intimately involved with!
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Hooray, I’m Cured!

Originally posted November 7, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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WHY WE’VE BECOME USEFUL IDIOTS! + 2

Another Gwen twin bill!
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COMFORTABLE IN MY OWN SKIN +1 +1

Read on...
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From Tolerant to Toxic: My Trans Awakening +2

Gwen's Saturday thoughts
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Nailing It

The dramatic conclusion of the NC trip and a well-written PSA. Originally posted June 4, 2023.
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Tar Heel Sun-Dee

Dee continues sharing her wonderful NC trip! Originally posted May 28, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Three

Make-a-me happy!
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part Two

Bliss!
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Once Bitten, Twice Shy

Two, two photoshoots in one (post)!
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Outdoor Photoshoot – Part One

Living my life...
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!