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From Transphobia to Self-Esteem

October 29, 2024 11 Comments
Damned if Lisa doesn't make me think every time she graces us with a post! Originally posted May 31, 2021.
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🍥A Kandi’s Land Mystery🍥

October 28, 2024 6 Comments
How to survive a pandemic and maintain some level of sanity. Originally posted July 1, 2021.
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New York Cit-Dee, Dee Two

October 27, 2024 3 Comments
With our son living in Brooklyn, and being tennis fans (attending the US Open), my wife and I have visited New York multiple times over ...
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THE POWER OF 1%

October 26, 2024 1 Comment
What If You Could Become Just 1% Better?  The Power of Tiny Gains in the Transgender Journey During my decades of writing, stage presentations and ...
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    THE POWER OF 1%

    October 26, 2024 1 Comment
    What If You Could Become Just 1% Better?  The Power of Tiny Gains in the Transgender Journey During my decades of writing, stage presentations and ...
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    ✨ The Mirror vs. Reality ✨ 

    October 19, 2024 4 Comments
    When we look in the mirror, we see a reflection shaped by our own perceptions—our insecurities, our past experiences, and our self-judgment.  But the way ...
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    My Transgender Journey: Rediscovering Gwen at 59

    October 12, 2024 7 Comments
    This one is important...
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    New York Cit-Dee, Dee Two

    October 27, 2024 3 Comments
    With our son living in Brooklyn, and being tennis fans (attending the US Open), my wife and I have visited New York multiple times over ...
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    New York Cit-Dee, Dee One

    October 20, 2024 5 Comments
    As I wrote a couple of Sun-Dee’s ago, following my three Dees in Atlantic Cit-Dee, my destination between my races on one weekend and the ...
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    The June Cleaver Collective

    October 22, 2024 25 Comments
    I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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    How to Pose for the Camera – A Kandi’s Land Seminar

    October 14, 2024 3 Comments
    My friend Nora conducts a world class seminar for us!
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    Bridal Gallery – 2023

    October 7, 2024 6 Comments
    This is the final presentation of a bridal gallery, unless….
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    Bridal Gallery – 2022

    September 27, 2024 1 Comment
    Almost done archiving the bridal gallery… You can see we took a bit of a chance at one bridal show.
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    Rules of The Road

    September 9, 2024 17 Comments
    We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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    The Power of “She”

    October 2, 2021 8 Comments
    One of the very first essays I ever wrote.
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    An Open Letter to Our Wives

    January 18, 2024 37 Comments
    This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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    The Angel Known as My Wife

    March 8, 2022 11 Comments
    Marie, this one's for you!
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    Thank You For Being a Friend

    November 23, 2023 16 Comments
    Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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    Be…

    October 11, 2023 26 Comments
    My mantra! My masterpiece!
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    Sacrifice

    March 20, 2024 6 Comments
    Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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    A Golden Flash For A Day!

    August 12, 2024 22 Comments
    All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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