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Recent Posts

No One Wins When Words Turn Into Bullets

Bonus Gwen
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Filled With Gratitude

I am one very, lucky girl!
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I Am Not a Threat

Very well said! Originally posted January 24, 2022.
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Christina Asks….

We answer your questions...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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No One Wins When Words Turn Into Bullets

Bonus Gwen
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I’M THE DEALER OF MY OWN LIFE

We appreciate you sharing your journey!
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SHOCKING, REVOLTING, DISTURBING

We all need to find humanity in the world.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Wigging Out!

A new Dee? Originally posted July 31, 2022.
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Secrets

Let's revisit one of Dee's stories. If you like novels, you'll love this!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Travel

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Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!