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Marilyn

This represents the final photoshoot I have removed from the blog. I have done so because my evolution continues, and these have become dated. They ...
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How Real Are We?

By Cristy Garcia I found a Flickr post by my friend Cristy’s that we did not take a look at here. With Cristy’s blessings, we ...
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I’ll Drink to That!

By Tina Davis A rare opportunity arose on January 3, 2025 when I had a lengthy break during an event where my wife did not join me ...
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We All Live Our Own Lives

As we have said here frequently, as we all know, “this” is completely different for each and every one of us. We are snowflakes, every ...
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    Dr. Gwen Patrone

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    WHY FINDING YOUR TRUTH IS VITAL

    Finding your TRUTH can make life incredibly exciting and full of purpose for you. Imagine waking up every day with a sense of excitement about ...
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    WANT THE BEST 2025 EVER? DO THIS… 

    I’m sitting in the Las Vegas airport wanting for my flight home. It’s December 1st and 2025 is approaching. I’m deciding what my focus is ...
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    🎁 A Powerful Gift for You as We Step into 2025 

    This is a long post. Please don’t disregard it. It’s my gift to you. Read it only when you have time to focus on what ...
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    PJ Party

    My GG friend (and BFF) Michelle turned 50 a couple of days after Christmas, although she doesn’t look it. She’s freakin gorgeous at 50. She ...
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    Twen-Dee Twen-Dee Four

    As we unveil 2025, a last look at 2024…. Like Kandi wrote recently, I take photos every time I dress. A quick scroll and count ...
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    Marilyn

    This represents the final photoshoot I have removed from the blog. I have done so because my evolution continues, and these have become dated. They ...
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    Barb Stitzer Photoshoot

    On January 3, 2022, Barb and I did quite a shoot! http://barbstitzer.com/
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    Shoes – Let’s Be Honest

    By Jocelyn Johnson The last item we put on before we head out the door is a pair of shoes. The shoes must match our ...
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    This is Trans

    A Photo Journey of Awareness and Love
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    Travel

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    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    Rules of The Road

    We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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    The Power of “She”

    One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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    An Open Letter to Our Wives

    This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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    Thank You For Being a Friend

    Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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    Be…

    My mantra! My masterpiece!
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    Sacrifice

    Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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    A Golden Flash For A Day!

    All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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    The Odd Couple

    If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!