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Having THAT Conversation with Your SO

Maddie Smith May 20, 2025 3 Comments

There comes a period in every cross-dresser’s life when the time comes to have THAT conversation with your significant other. It can be stressful; it ...

Another Adventurous Weekend, Part 2

Tina Davis May 19, 2025 13 Comments

By Tina Davis Friday, April 25, 2025, was a very busy day. I had to take my car to the dealership for a scheduled repair early ...

A Different Look

Dee May 18, 2025 6 Comments

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve. Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...

DISCOVER YOUR TRUTH

Gwen Patrone May 17, 2025 2 Comments

A friend was having a tough time and I asked if she had read any of my many posts regarding empowerment. She mentioned she had ...

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DISCOVER YOUR TRUTH

May 17, 2025 2 Comments

A friend was having a tough time and I asked if she had read any of my many posts regarding empowerment. She mentioned she had ...

The Battle Within: Which Version Are You Feeding?

May 10, 2025 1 Comment

Every day, we stand at a crossroads, faced with choices that define who we are and who we will become. Inside each of us, a ...

BECOMING THE UNICORN 🦄

May 3, 2025 1 Comment

Changing yourself, in a transgender context, means letting go of what society has taught you and learning what truly helps you transform the person you ...

A Different Look

Dee May 18, 2025 6 Comments

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve. Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...

Nif-Dee Fif-Dee

Dee May 11, 2025 4 Comments

My GG BFF Michelle turned half a century in December (no, she doesn’t look it) and at the time I promised her a nice birth-Dee ...

Glorious Fashion

A Different Look

May 18, 2025 6 Comments

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve. Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

May 12, 2025 7 Comments

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...

Refresh(ing)

April 27, 2025 5 Comments

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

March 31, 2025 4 Comments

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!

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Rules of The Road

Kandi September 9, 2024 19 Comments

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.

The Power of “She”

Kandi January 6, 2025 11 Comments

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.

An Open Letter to Our Wives

Kandi January 18, 2024 37 Comments

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.

The Angel Known as My Wife

Kandi January 28, 2025 16 Comments

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...

Thank You For Being a Friend

Kandi November 23, 2023 20 Comments

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.

Be…

Kandi October 11, 2023 28 Comments

My mantra! My masterpiece!

Sacrifice

Kandi March 20, 2024 6 Comments

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.

A Golden Flash For A Day!

Sherry Greer August 12, 2024 23 Comments

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.

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