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Bob

Kandi April 3, 2025 9 Comments

Look the absolute joy on the faces of our sisters! All because of the kindness of a stranger.

Travelogue: Keystone Conference 2025 – Day Three

Kandi April 2, 2025 6 Comments

Goodbye, Farewell and Amen If anyone can identify this reference, you are way too old and have my admiration. A hint, February 28, 1983, the ...

Out: Part 1

Maddie Smith April 1, 2025 8 Comments

By Maddie Smith Soooooooo … Once upon a time in a far-away land on the other side of the world, lived a girl called Maddie. ...

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

Kandi March 31, 2025 4 Comments

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!

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“EM”POWERMENT TO “FEMME”POWERMENT

March 29, 2025 2 Comments

I’ve often written about taking control of your power. It’s your power unless you give it to someone else willingly. “EM”powerment can very well be ...

Navigating Change with Grace and Unity

March 22, 2025 4 Comments

Dear friends, In light of the recent political upheavals and the shifting narratives surrounding transgender rights, I wanted to reach out to you with a ...

Exploring My Identity: Crossdresser or Transgender (M2F)?

March 15, 2025 10 Comments

Hey everyone! Today, I wanted to dive into a personal exploration about identity, and I’m super curious to hear your thoughts. Remember, I’m not trying ...

Special K’s

Dee March 30, 2025 5 Comments

Dee down under! Originally posted February 20, 2022.

Manic Monday, Part 2, Free People

Dee March 23, 2025 6 Comments

I really wish Dee would learn to go out and have some fun..... Originally posted December 12, 2021.

Glorious Fashion

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

March 31, 2025 4 Comments

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!

The Walk

March 26, 2025 6 Comments

Recently, we’ve had “The Shoot” and “The Fitting” which was the prelude now to “The Show”. The boudoir series continues a bit longer and now ...

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

March 24, 2025 2 Comments

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

March 17, 2025 4 Comments

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!

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Rules of The Road

Kandi September 9, 2024 19 Comments

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.

The Power of “She”

Kandi January 6, 2025 11 Comments

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.

An Open Letter to Our Wives

Kandi January 18, 2024 37 Comments

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.

The Angel Known as My Wife

Kandi January 28, 2025 16 Comments

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...

Thank You For Being a Friend

Kandi November 23, 2023 18 Comments

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.

Be…

Kandi October 11, 2023 28 Comments

My mantra! My masterpiece!

Sacrifice

Kandi March 20, 2024 6 Comments

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.

A Golden Flash For A Day!

Sherry Greer August 12, 2024 23 Comments

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.

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