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Recent Posts

The Homecoming – 3 – Mum, Dad, It’s Me!

By Amanda J.
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This Week’s Advice: Get a Makeover

More Great A-Dee-Vice! Originally posted August 6, 2023.
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WHAT PRIDE MONTH MEANS TO ME

As Pride Month begins, I’ve been thinking about what it really means to me—especially as a transgender woman, a former US Marine Sergeant, and someone ...
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Vanity Fair

Originally posted January 9, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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WHAT PRIDE MONTH MEANS TO ME

As Pride Month begins, I’ve been thinking about what it really means to me—especially as a transgender woman, a former US Marine Sergeant, and someone ...
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TO EMBRACE OR TO HIDE THE FEMININE WITHIN

It wasn’t so long ago—at least in the scheme of things—that my feminine side was locked away, out of reach and out of mind. Decades ...
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THEY’RE STARING AT YOU!

My wife loves to remind me: “They’re staring at you.” And guess what? She’s absolutely right. When you’re 6’6” in heels and sailing on the ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

This Week’s Advice: Get a Makeover

More Great A-Dee-Vice! Originally posted August 6, 2023.
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Full Circle

This week, I’m going to do some time traveling, back to Valentines Day in 2002, when we were living in Sydney, Australia.  My wife has ...
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Travel

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!