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Pose Like an Egyptian

Born in Arizona, moved to Babylonia...
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How to Pose for the Camera – A Kandi’s Land Seminar

My friend Nora conducts a world class seminar for us!
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Atlantic Cit-Dee, Dee Three

Usually I wake up Sun-Dee mornings and open my chosen device (phone or tablet) to see what nice comment Ms. Dee-ism has written about my ...
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My Transgender Journey: Rediscovering Gwen at 59

This one is important...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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My Transgender Journey: Rediscovering Gwen at 59

This one is important...
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THE COURAGE TO BE HONEST 

Here’s a thought: If people felt safe enough to share their “real” opinions, we’d probably find we have way more in common than we think.  ...
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Whose “Truth” Is “The Truth”? 

Balancing "living your truth" with the need for a shared, cohesive reality is a complex task.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Atlantic Cit-Dee, Dee Three

Usually I wake up Sun-Dee mornings and open my chosen device (phone or tablet) to see what nice comment Ms. Dee-ism has written about my ...
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Atlantic Cit-Dee, Dee Two

Before I could get to the fun stuff, I had some morning business to take care of, my Olympic distance Triathlon (1,500 meter swim, 40K ...
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

How to Pose for the Camera – A Kandi’s Land Seminar

My friend Nora conducts a world class seminar for us!
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Bridal Gallery – 2023

This is the final presentation of a bridal gallery, unless….
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Bridal Gallery – 2022

Almost done archiving the bridal gallery… You can see we took a bit of a chance at one bridal show.
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Bridal Gallery – Magazine Photo Shoot

I was blessed beyond words to participate in a photo shoot and be published in a local bridal magazine. The day was surreal, the photos ...
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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

Marie, this one's for you!
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!