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Recent Posts

Audible

I actually feel guilty that this brings me such joy!
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Matrimonial Challenges – Part 1 – How To Blow Up Your Marriage

The ability to share like this makes me so proud.... Originally posted January 17, 2022.
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It Never Gets Old, It Just Gets Better

I believe I am getting better at this all and nothing could make me happier!! Originally posted September 21, 2021.
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Flying Pretty

A great Dee-peat! Originally posted July 24, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

Buy Gwen's Book

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THE CUT WAS VERY DEEP

Saturday thoughts...
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One Tragic Act Does Not Define A Community

Read this.
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THE QUIET ACHE IN A LOUD WORLD

Desired for a moment but dismissed for a lifetime.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Flying Pretty

A great Dee-peat! Originally posted July 24, 2022.
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Senses Working Overtime

New Dee!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!