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Kandi in The Land

April 11, 2025, was a day that offered me some time flexibility and a few ways to spread my wings a bit. I won’t lie, ...
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A Day in the Life, Part 3

By Tina Davis It had already been a busy day on March 23, 2025, but I was not ready to stop enjoying myself. When I got ...
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A Day in the Life, Part 2

By Tina Davis After I left the wonderful and welcoming church, I drove to a large outdoor mall in a city to the west, where ...
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A Day in the Life, Part 1

This is exactly why the blog exists. ❤️
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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BECAUSE I’M HAPPY 😁 

I’ve written allot about happiness and surrounding emotions like Joy, Serenity, Harmony etc.  WHY IS HAPPINESS SO IMPORTANT?  Times are tough for those like me. ...
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THE TOLERANT INTOLERANT

Today, I’ve been thinking about something that hits close to home: the idea of being a “tolerant intolerant.” It’s a bit of a confusing term ...
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UNCOVER YOUR BADASS SELF

Do you realize you lead a fierce badass life?   You’ve spent years digging deep to unearth your true self. Your life story is one ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Michelle, My Belle–Part 2

Our favorite pair at it again! Originally posted February 6, 2022.
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Michelle, My Belle–Part 1

Gee. what could they be up to now? Originally posted January 30, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Walk

Recently, we’ve had “The Shoot” and “The Fitting” which was the prelude now to “The Show”.  The boudoir series continues a bit longer and now ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!