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Recent Posts

StrAIght Talk

By Amanda J.
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Itsy, Bitsy, Teenie, Weenie…

Hope you like a good double entendre!
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My Time

By Julie Day
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Feeling Right, I Think…….

Just so you know, I poured a lot of my heart into this one.... Originally posted August 26, 2021.
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  • The Doctor is In

    Dr. Gwen Patrone

    #Transpreneur

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    Get Gwen's new book: Trans Truth: Your Journey To Completeness on Amazon today!

    A TRANSGENDER JOURNEY

    Finding my way home.
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    What Is Your Supernature?

    Thank you, Gwen, for your inspiration, always!
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    YOU’RE SO KINKY

    Ever think about how planets warp space and pull stuff toward them? Einstein says that’s gravity. Well, here’s a wild thought: your mind kind of ...
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    Confidence, Part 3

    Back to our story.... originally posted March 27, 2022.
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    Confidence, Part 2

    Maybe one of Dee's very best! Originally posted March 20, 2022.
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    A Different Look

    As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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    Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

    Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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    Refresh(ing)

    I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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    Travel

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    Events

    Read our event recaps

    Beauty

    Read our beauty posts

    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    The Odd Couple

    If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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    The Power of “She”

    One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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    Sacrifice

    Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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    An Open Letter to Our Wives

    This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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    Who We Are

    Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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    Top Ten List!

    The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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    Rules of The Road

    We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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    The Angel Known as My Wife

    I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!