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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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WHAT’S YOUR FETISH?

It's Saturday!
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WAITING TO EXHALE

The Good Doctor checks in again!
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JUST BECAUSE YOU’RE OFFENDED…

Grab a cup of coffee and think a bit...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dee-va Las Vegas 2025, Dee Two, Tues-Dee

More adventures!
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Dee-va Las Vegas 2025, Dee One, Mon-Dee

We look forward to Dee's Vegas adventures!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

The Rise Fashion Show

Video proof that I actually am a model!!
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Building The Perfect Beast (My Wardrobe)

Our friend Emily inquired about my wardrobe in a recent comment, so here is the story.
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International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!