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Recent Posts

Gwen x 2

Gwen's Saturday words.
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Lovely Day

The world's alright with me
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Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Wham Bam Shang-A-Lang

And a sha-la-la-la-la-la thing
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Gwen x 2

Gwen's Saturday words.
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Gwen Twin Bill

Due to a wonderful backlog of Gwen posts, we'll run two weekly beginning today!
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LOOKING FROM THE OUTSIDE IN

🌸 To anyone looking in from the outside, trying to understand…
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Dad Points

Always an adventure...
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Retail Therapy, Part 2

I'll bet you were wondering how this one turned out. Originally posted February 5, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Terri and I

Thank you Terri!! Originally posted December 16, 2021.
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Short Skirt and a Long Jacket

I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
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Marilyn Shoot 2021

Here is the result of the shoot itself.
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Five Skirts

This is a straight picture post.
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!