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Travelogue: Erie – Day Two

Two days of this is enough…. November 15, 2024 was a full day. Up early (not by choice, by age, I have to pay the ...
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Travelogue: Erie – Day One

November 14, 2024, my first day at the Lake Erie Gala. But first, there was real life to deal with. I have been the member ...
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Seven Years of Kandi’s Land!

This was not even remotely a thought seven years ago... Who knew I could even string a sentence together?
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Fore!-Part 2

Originally published July 4, 2021.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Overcoming Fear in Transition: A Transgender Woman’s Journey

When we think of a person undergoing gender transition, we might imagine someone who embodies courage—a person who faces uncertainty, steps into the unknown, and ...
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THE WARRIOR WITHIN 

Have you ever felt like life is hard? Like it can sometimes be a struggle to get up in the morning and do all of ...
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Can’t We All Return to Being Human Again? 

Amen, sister!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Fore!-Part 2

Originally published July 4, 2021.
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New York Cit-Dee, Dee Four

My four Dee visit to New York Cit-Dee was coming to an end, but I still had a half Dee to stroll around before I ...
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Snow Globe Photoshoot

The artistry of Jackie Bertolette.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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How to Pose for the Camera – A Kandi’s Land Seminar

My friend Nora conducts a world class seminar for us!
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Bridal Gallery – 2023

This is the final presentation of a bridal gallery, unless….
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Travel

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Events

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

Marie, this one's for you!
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!