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Out: Part 1

By Maddie Smith Soooooooo … Once upon a time in a far-away land on the other side of the world, lived a girl called Maddie. ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Special K’s

Dee down under! Originally posted February 20, 2022.
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“EM”POWERMENT TO “FEMME”POWERMENT 

I’ve often written about taking control of your power. It’s your power unless you give it to someone else willingly.  “EM”powerment can very well be ...
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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“EM”POWERMENT TO “FEMME”POWERMENT 

I’ve often written about taking control of your power. It’s your power unless you give it to someone else willingly.  “EM”powerment can very well be ...
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Navigating Change with Grace and Unity

Dear friends,  In light of the recent political upheavals and the shifting narratives surrounding transgender rights, I wanted to reach out to you with a ...
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Exploring My Identity: Crossdresser or Transgender (M2F)? 

Hey everyone!  Today, I wanted to dive into a personal exploration about identity, and I’m super curious to hear your thoughts.  Remember, I’m not trying ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Special K’s

Dee down under! Originally posted February 20, 2022.
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Manic Monday, Part 2, Free People

I really wish Dee would learn to go out and have some fun..... Originally posted December 12, 2021.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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The Walk

Recently, we’ve had “The Shoot” and “The Fitting” which was the prelude now to “The Show”.  The boudoir series continues a bit longer and now ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!