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😱WHY DO PEOPLE HATE ME?🥹

I’m a transgender male to female, and I also happen to be a dad of a transgender female to male. As a former US Marine, ...
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Out and About

Kandi in The Land

April 11, 2025, was a day that offered me some time flexibility and a few ways to spread my wings a bit. I won’t lie, ...
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Experiences

A Day in the Life, Part 3

By Tina Davis It had already been a busy day on March 23, 2025, but I was not ready to stop enjoying myself. When I got ...
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Experiences

A Day in the Life, Part 2

By Tina Davis After I left the wonderful and welcoming church, I drove to a large outdoor mall in a city to the west, where ...
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Experiences

A Day in the Life, Part 1

This is exactly why the blog exists. ❤️
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Experiences

Experiences: The Cleveland International Film Festival 2025 – Day Nine, Closing Night

Sadly, the film festival drew to its conclusion, April 5, 2025. I did not work the final day and had the entire day to myself. ...
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Out and About

Michelle, My Belle–Part 2

Our favorite pair at it again! Originally posted February 6, 2022.
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Advice

BECAUSE I’M HAPPY 😁 

I’ve written allot about happiness and surrounding emotions like Joy, Serenity, Harmony etc.  WHY IS HAPPINESS SO IMPORTANT?  Times are tough for those like me. ...
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Experiences

Experiences: The Cleveland International Film Festival 2025 – Day Nine + MIX: Strata

After a triple header the day before, I took the Ernie Banks route, Let’s Play Two! April 4, 2025, CIFF shift then an evening at ...
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Experiences

Experiences: The Cleveland International Film Festival 2025 – Day Eight

April 3, 2025, mostly likely the fullest Kandi day ever. Because I had to get out of the way at home very early, I decided ...
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Reflections

She’s Back – 2: Looking Inward

By Amanda J. My last post started with a declaration that I’m not a woman and ended with me declaring that I was ‘messed up’ ...
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Experiences

Experiences: The Cleveland International Film Festival 2025 – Days Four and Seven

March 30, 2025, there was no work at CIFF this day, but a film I wanted to see, “Lost & Found in Cleveland”. I had ...
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