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Sugah Cookies

Allow life to make you happy.
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Be Visible (Video Version)

The final installment.
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Cuatro De Mayo

Let's learn about a "mouth orgasm"...
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Interview with Dr. Gwen: A Man’s Journey with Hidden Crossdressing, Secrecy and Anxiety 

It's Saturday, it's Gwen.
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Cuatro De Mayo

Let's learn about a "mouth orgasm"...
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Bir-Dees of a Feather

Bucket list item: ✔️
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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Rules of The Road

This is my personal manifesto. If you read nothing else here, you need to read this.
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One of our favorite posts, re-presented here today. Happy New Year all!
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Things I Have Learned

It's the extended Thanksgiving week(end). Let's take a look back at one of your favorites (with a few tweaks)!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

Marie, this one's for you!
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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My mantra! My masterpiece!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!