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Perhaps I Should Have Paid More Attention at School

Amanda J. May 13, 2025 1 Comment

By Amanda J. My schooldays ended almost half a century ago. In the intervening period , practically every piece of knowledge that my long suffering teachers managed to ...

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Kandi May 12, 2025 3 Comments

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...

Nif-Dee Fif-Dee

Dee May 11, 2025 4 Comments

My GG BFF Michelle turned half a century in December (no, she doesn’t look it) and at the time I promised her a nice birth-Dee ...

The Battle Within: Which Version Are You Feeding?

Gwen Patrone May 10, 2025 1 Comment

Every day, we stand at a crossroads, faced with choices that define who we are and who we will become. Inside each of us, a ...

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The Battle Within: Which Version Are You Feeding?

May 10, 2025 1 Comment

Every day, we stand at a crossroads, faced with choices that define who we are and who we will become. Inside each of us, a ...

BECOMING THE UNICORN 🦄

May 3, 2025 1 Comment

Changing yourself, in a transgender context, means letting go of what society has taught you and learning what truly helps you transform the person you ...

😱WHY DO PEOPLE HATE ME?🥹

April 26, 2025 6 Comments

I’m a transgender male to female, and I also happen to be a dad of a transgender female to male. As a former US Marine, ...

Nif-Dee Fif-Dee

Dee May 11, 2025 4 Comments

My GG BFF Michelle turned half a century in December (no, she doesn’t look it) and at the time I promised her a nice birth-Dee ...

Won-Dee Woman

Dee May 4, 2025 4 Comments

I was in drab in Australia at a Salvo’s and I came across a Wonder Woman dress hanging on the racks. My first reaction was ...

Glorious Fashion

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

May 12, 2025 3 Comments

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...

Refresh(ing)

April 27, 2025 5 Comments

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

March 31, 2025 4 Comments

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!

The Walk

March 26, 2025 6 Comments

Recently, we’ve had “The Shoot” and “The Fitting” which was the prelude now to “The Show”. The boudoir series continues a bit longer and now ...

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Rules of The Road

Kandi September 9, 2024 19 Comments

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.

The Power of “She”

Kandi January 6, 2025 11 Comments

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.

An Open Letter to Our Wives

Kandi January 18, 2024 37 Comments

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.

The Angel Known as My Wife

Kandi January 28, 2025 16 Comments

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...

Thank You For Being a Friend

Kandi November 23, 2023 20 Comments

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.

Be…

Kandi October 11, 2023 28 Comments

My mantra! My masterpiece!

Sacrifice

Kandi March 20, 2024 6 Comments

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.

A Golden Flash For A Day!

Sherry Greer August 12, 2024 23 Comments

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.

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