When I first started realizing my aspirations of feminization, I started in my home (apartment), trying on various articles of clothing, wigs, make-up until I felt “ready”.
I went to my front door and I was FROZEN WITH FEAR.
What if someone recognized me?
What if I don’t “pass”?
What if I walk like a guy?
The anxiety was like a tidal wave that drown me in fear.
Then I realized…
The first step is the most important.
I let loose the good parts of my imagination which overwhelmed the anxiety and fear.
Imagining my life as it can be and using it to PULL ME TOWARDS IT, gave me hope and direction. PUSHING FROM my life experiences up until now is a far WEAKER way to do it than PULLING from a POWERFUL FUTURE DREAM.
Sometimes, it’s very easy for us to lose ourselves in this femme daydream yet overwhelmed with anxiety and fear.
However, I understood that living in a daydream (in my apartment), produced no results for me unless I took action to make it come true.
For this reason, when I want something, I take the initiative to take the very first step and get the ball rolling. To me, the first step is by far the most important step (and most difficult) because it sets the tone for my femme dreams.
If I take the first step toward my goal to be better as a female every time I dress, it doesn’t matter if I “pass”. I’m just being the best me I can be. Besides, aren’t most people just passing through? So who cares what they think.
Going out of the front door with confidence, and with the right frame-of-mind, I can do this.
By understanding that I must incorporate my femme dreams with action, I’m able to set my plan of action before I take that first step.
My action plan of personal feminization ensures that I am being strategic in my approach, therefore maximizing my results.
If I were to simply dress and go to the front door without pre-framing things, the results I desire would be unattainable. I would have no direction and would likely have anxiety and fear repeatedly rule my world.
The first step, even baby steps, are vital to my feminization and results you can attain, so do everything your power to launch yourself with a sustainable momentum in order to achieve whatever level of feminization you desire.
Stop daydreaming about it and DO IT. Take the first step.
Be Strong. 💪