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Fiction

A NIGHT TO REMEMBER

A Dual Gender Story  The neon lights flickered outside Third Moon Tavern, casting a colorful glow against the rain-soaked pavement. It was a cozy establishment ...
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Experiences

Space Jam!

Originally run July 29, 2021 and is being rerun because it contains one of my very favorite photos (guess which one).
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Reflections

Passing

Let's revisit an old essay, these many years later, I stand by every word.
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Reflections

When Something Has To Give

By Amanda J. If ever there was a word that defined my life, or at least the part of it that you would recognise, it’s ...
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Interview

On Being Bigender

By Nora Simone The following article is posted here with permission of the author and Transliving International, the world’s leading magazine celebrating gender diversity. Click the ...
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Out and About

Fewer and Farther Between

So far, Year 11 of Kandi is not at all like the first ten. I know, cry me a river… Without getting into specifics and ...
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Out and About

Birthday Boys – Part 1

Originally posted September 12, 2021.
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Reflections

WHY YOUR WORLDVIEW IS VITAL TO YOUR HAPPINESS 

Have you ever noticed how some people seem to radiate joy, while others just seem to be stuck in a gloomy mood? What’s the deal ...
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Fashion

Marilyn

This represents the final photoshoot I have removed from the blog. I have done so because my evolution continues, and these have become dated. They ...
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Observations

How Real Are We?

By Cristy Garcia I found a Flickr post by my friend Cristy’s that we did not take a look at here. With Cristy’s blessings, we ...
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Out and About

I’ll Drink to That!

By Tina Davis A rare opportunity arose on January 3, 2025 when I had a lengthy break during an event where my wife did not join me ...
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Out and About

We All Live Our Own Lives

As we have said here frequently, as we all know, “this” is completely different for each and every one of us. We are snowflakes, every ...
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