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Things I Have Done!

These are things that are indeed possible!

So as not to get repetitive, everything on this list was obviously done while dressed and probably is not a comprehensive list. It is in no particular order. I am doing this list to show those out there who have a fear of being in public what is actually possible.

Been in a movie, as two separate characters.

Gotten two separate traffic tickets.

Gone to traffic court twice (for the same ticket, and won).

Been to the symphony.

Had a professional transformation makeover and photo shoot.

Done photo shoots (having done my own makeup).

Worked the Space Jam world premier!

Shopped for anything and everything (including lingerie) in both male and female modes.

Volunteered significantly for many different organizations, including mainstream charities, community theaters, art museum and many other places.

Attended conferences and/or group gatherings for those like myself.

Been an integral part of two separate church congregations.

Had numerous bridal fittings.

Had numerous bra fittings.

Get my hair cut at a salon (remove my wig, get the cut, replace the wig).

Met numerous people at mainstream establishments with whom I have remained friends.

Taken numerous Sephora make up classes.

Had numerous makeovers.

Been to the beach several times.

Had drinks and meals purchased for me by total strangers.

Taken cooking classes.

Attended the theater.

Attended a murder mystery (alone).

Crashed a wedding.

Attended a handful of weddings with a musician friend who was performing (once actually sitting on the side of the altar).

Had minor surgery.

Frequent doctor’s appointments.

Taken hot yoga classes.

Taken spin classes.

Worked out at Planet Fitness.

Gotten a massage.

Currently am taking improv classes.

I am sure there are a few things I have missed, but the point is, if you want to do something, then do it!

I was going to do my own bucket list, but I really don’t have one as you can see, I have been able to have many different experiences. I would love to be a bridesmaid in an actual wedding, that I know!


Love. A simple word. The solutions to all of our problems in the world. I just love this series of photos I took here.


I’ll be adding modeling to the above list!! I have recently been named a runway model for the Ohio Fashion Week 2021 Black Tie Gala! I am so excited and will, of course, share stories with you all as we go.

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2 Responses

  1. Kandi you continue to amaze me, not only all you have done and planning on doing.
    As that old saying goes you’ve come a long way baby
    Hugs Rachael

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