I. Be smart when going out (regardless of your attire).
II. Be kind. Reward kindness.
III. Be appropriate, in terms of body type, age and circumstances. Be appropriate in dress and behavior.
IV. You are doing nothing wrong, quit acting like it!
V. None of us are alike. We all bring different circumstances, feelings, beliefs, needs, fears, socioeconomic situations, on and on, to the table here. Where I may be fortunate in one regard, I may be much less so in another. “This” is very different for each and every one of us.
VI. A smile is the prettiest thing you can wear.
VII. Be confident. This applies to any and every part of one’s life. If you are not, you will bring on a negative reaction from the general public, again regardless of your attire.
VIII. Be visible otherwise it will never change for anyone. It’s like anything else, we change minds one at a time.
IX. “This” ain’t going away! You can deny it, you can accept it, you can manage it, you can embrace it, but regardless, it will be with you, be a part of you for the entirety of your life.
X. You have one life. Live it as you want, not as you perceive the world wants you to live.
XI. Thou shalt bookmark kandis-land.com and tell thy friends about it! Thou shalt start thy day here first, then click to the other sites.
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PS As a follow up to the MRI post. I have a 4 of 5 possibility that I have prostate cancer. There is no more curable cancer than that, so I am truly not concerned. I will have to deal with the insufferable health care system more than I would like, I will be taxed here and there on the money scale and I may end up in adult diapers early than I had planned. But this is no big deal, we all have shit to deal with. I am telling you because, well, I blabber here much more than anyone cares. Please do not feel sorry for me, simply carry on and once all the BS is done, back to normal! I will live my life no different that I did yesterday. I still have Boston in my crosshairs and much, much more to accomplish!
You will hear nothing else from me about this, we are not telling our children, we are not telling my Mom, unless something drastic happens. You all are on the short list of those I am telling. Now go shop at Amazon! Viva la Kandi’s Land!