What’s my worth?
What’s my value?
What’s good and what’s bad?
What is gender?
What is sexuality to me?
What’s my moral compass?
I’m a boy. I’m a girl.
I could go on and on….
We don’t have to live with the cards we’re dealt. We can request as many new cards as we wish.
Here’s an even more profound question…
WHY NOT BE THE DEALER OF THE DECK?
Recognition of this is step one.
Recognize that the past is behind you, and your attempts at getting “the old days” back are a waste of time. Let go of yesterday and make today your most productive time ever by deciding which cards you want to hold and which to change with new cards.
THINK, THINK, THINK
Really ponder over the above thoughts, and resist thinking that your past defines you. Although your past created you, hold yourself back from assuming it can hold you back from living the life you want. Know that you’re free to choose what you do, and exercise that choice in every area.
IT’S GOING TO BE TOUGH
Always know you may, and most probably will, experience challenges along the way, but accept those challenges as opportunities to grow. Learn from these experiences and express gratitude for every adventure and look forward to tomorrow.
Leave the past in the past and stay focused only on today. Because you’re open to new possibilities, the past has little sway over your thoughts and actions.
Rather than thinking of past regrets and wishing things had turned out differently, be glad for everything that has happened your my life. And you’re ready for the next adventure.
Feel grateful for each breath and breathe fully and receive deeply and abundantly. You are whole and satisfied.
I KNOW YOU’VE GOT WHAT IT TAKES
I know there are so many things you want to accomplish. Am I right? I know inside you, there’s a fire and determination to fulfill your dreams and goals.
SO WHAT’S THE SECRET GWEN?
Lastly, the secret is this, know that today is all you have and yesterdays are to be learned from but not bound by. So, be committed to making your life extraordinary and meaningful by not wasting yours and impact others is a positive way!
Be Strong 💪
#TransPreneur
2 Responses
Gwen,
These last two sentences of yours are truly words of wisdom:
“Lastly, the secret is this, know that today is all you have and yesterdays are to be learned from but not bound by. So, be committed to making your life extraordinary and meaningful by not wasting yours and impact others is a positive way!”
Fiona,
I’m not so sure about not being bound by events of yesterday , when I came out to my wife the events of that resounded for a very long time . They did very much control my future , partly in a good way and partly in a devestating way . Some people have to cling to yesterdays thoughts to help them through their problems of today and tomorrow .