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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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WE’RE MORE THAN A SECRET 🤐

Why Trans People Deserve Real Connection Hi everyone, I want to talk about something that so many of us in the trans and crossdressing communities ...
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🌈Strange Love, Strange Life…🎶

I’m out taking my morning walk at 5 o’clock in the morning and up pops a song by Depeche Mode called Strange Love. Little things ...
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More Than Skin Deep: The Real Journey Behind Gender Transition

I’m sitting at Starbucks thinking about what I can write today. I let my mind wander and see what the universe whispers to me. I ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

A Walk on the Wild Side

This one is an After Sun-Dee episode!
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Gateway to Pride

Sun-Dee, Lovely Sun-Dee
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!