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Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

GOD GAVE ME A LITTLE EXTRA GRACE

Sometimes I find myself daydreaming about the life I might have lived if I’d found Gwen—my second self, some may say my true self—at an ...
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Returning To Normal, Bit By Bit

Seeing new friends, old friends, wearing a sundress on a beautiful day......not a bad way to go! Originally posted July 20, 2021.
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All-Day Kandi

Not a bad way to go, out and about for about nine hours! Originally posted July 7, 2021.
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To Tell Or Not To Tell, That Is The Question

By Amanda J.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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GOD GAVE ME A LITTLE EXTRA GRACE

Sometimes I find myself daydreaming about the life I might have lived if I’d found Gwen—my second self, some may say my true self—at an ...
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WE’RE MORE THAN A SECRET 🤐

Why Trans People Deserve Real Connection Hi everyone, I want to talk about something that so many of us in the trans and crossdressing communities ...
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🌈Strange Love, Strange Life…🎶

I’m out taking my morning walk at 5 o’clock in the morning and up pops a song by Depeche Mode called Strange Love. Little things ...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

A Walk on the Wild Side

This one is an After Sun-Dee episode!
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Gateway to Pride

Sun-Dee, Lovely Sun-Dee
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

The Walk

Recently, we’ve had “The Shoot” and “The Fitting” which was the prelude now to “The Show”.  The boudoir series continues a bit longer and now ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!