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Out and About

Michigan There and Back

For one of my jobs, my territory was Michigan and Ohio. I recently gave up Michigan, but kept a few key accounts. One is a ...
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Out and About

Back Dee-own Under

My (Aussie) wife and I have returned to the Melbourne area, where we own an apartment in a Melbourne suburb. We’ve come here in January ...
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Observations

THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM 

I would like to address a controversial and sensitive topic that many shy away from due to its potential to spark intense debates.  However, I ...
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Reflections

She Knows

A brilliantly written essay by my great friend, Chynna Angel Douglas. It was posted on her Facebook page about a year ago and reprinted here ...
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Reflections

Why I Do This

This one will speak for itself. Originally run January 3, 2022.
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Observations

Compliments

Originally posted August 9, 2021.
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Kandi's FavoritesReflections

The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Out and About

Elaine and Paula

I finally scared up an opportunity to go to a cool event, a party, where I would know no one walking in the door and ...
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Out and About

Birthday Boys – Part 2

Originally posted September 19, 2021.
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Fiction

A NIGHT TO REMEMBER

A Dual Gender Story  The neon lights flickered outside Third Moon Tavern, casting a colorful glow against the rain-soaked pavement. It was a cozy establishment ...
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Experiences

Space Jam!

Originally run July 29, 2021 and is being rerun because it contains one of my very favorite photos (guess which one).
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Reflections

Passing

Let's revisit an old essay, these many years later, I stand by every word.
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