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Out and About

16 Days…

This was the span of time between my recent movie shoot and this day, October 23, 2024. Kandi was nowhere to be found. There were ...
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Reflections

From Transphobia to Self-Esteem

Damned if Lisa doesn't make me think every time she graces us with a post! Originally posted May 31, 2021.
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Fiction

🍥A Kandi’s Land Mystery🍥

How to survive a pandemic and maintain some level of sanity. Originally posted July 1, 2021.
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Travel

New York Cit-Dee, Dee Two

With our son living in Brooklyn, and being tennis fans (attending the US Open), my wife and I have visited New York multiple times over ...
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Observations

THE POWER OF 1%

What If You Could Become Just 1% Better?  The Power of Tiny Gains in the Transgender Journey During my decades of writing, stage presentations and ...
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Out and About

Tina’s Spring Weekend, Part 2

Originally run June 15, 2021.
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Out and About

Tina’s Spring Weekend, Part 1

Originally run June 14, 2021.
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Events

Feels Like The First Time

2024 Rock and Roll Hall of Fame Induction Ceremony
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Fashion

The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Out and About

Officer Kandi

Miss me?
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Travel

New York Cit-Dee, Dee One

As I wrote a couple of Sun-Dee’s ago, following my three Dees in Atlantic Cit-Dee, my destination between my races on one weekend and the ...
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Reflections

✨ The Mirror vs. Reality ✨ 

When we look in the mirror, we see a reflection shaped by our own perceptions—our insecurities, our past experiences, and our self-judgment.  But the way ...
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