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Visibility

Being seen. Establishing existence, humanity. My SOP. May 22, 2025, I had a full but basically uneventful afternoon. First was an hour training session with ...
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The Homecoming 1 – Ready, Steady, Go!

By Amanda J. I’ve just come back from visiting my home town in the north of England.  The town where many of my ancestors lived in ...
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Running On (Not Quite) Empty

I usually do a couple of 10K races a year sponsored by Go St. Louis. The spring race includes a marathon, and a half marathon ...
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THEY’RE STARING AT YOU!

My wife loves to remind me: “They’re staring at you.” And guess what? She’s absolutely right. When you’re 6’6” in heels and sailing on the ...
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Another Adventurous Weekend, Part 3

By Tina Davis I woke up Sunday, April 27, 2025, to a cold and wet day. But I was determined to go back to the welcoming ...
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The Genuine Me

By Jocelyn Johnson A recent Kandi’s Land post got me thinking about individual styles. How we dress, our makeup regime, shoes we wear, accessories we ...
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A Different Kind of High

A major event space. A high-end charity event. A space full of about 500 people. Me, the only “one” there, so positively noticed, recognized and ...
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Having THAT Conversation with Your SO

There comes a period in every cross-dresser’s life when the time comes to have THAT conversation with your significant other. It can be stressful; it ...
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Another Adventurous Weekend, Part 2

By Tina Davis Friday, April 25, 2025, was a very busy day. I had to take my car to the dealership for a scheduled repair early ...