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Recent Posts

Do It Again

Here we go, back, Jack...
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I’ve Got the Blues

Hmmmmm, who could Dee be hanging around with this week? Originally posted September 11, 2022.
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THE YIN/YANG OF GENDER DYNAMICS

The good doctor shares with us again!
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Always Something Interesting!

My outings just keep topping themselves! Originally posted October 19, 2021.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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THE YIN/YANG OF GENDER DYNAMICS

The good doctor shares with us again!
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WHAT TRANSITIONING WAS LIKE FOR ME

Tremendous insights...
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DESTROY OR DIAMOND?

The Relief Valve Hack from Dysphoria Hacks
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

I’ve Got the Blues

Hmmmmm, who could Dee be hanging around with this week? Originally posted September 11, 2022.
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Up In The Air

You know who, hanging with you know who, again! Love it!! Originally posted August 28, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

The Rise Fashion Show

Video proof that I actually am a model!!
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Building The Perfect Beast (My Wardrobe)

Our friend Emily inquired about my wardrobe in a recent comment, so here is the story.
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International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!