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THE QUICK FIX MYTH

Happy Holidays!
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IT’S BIKINI TIME!

CRUISING TODAY FOR FOUR DAYS
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DON’T BECOME THAT WHICH YOU HATE

Saturday wisdom...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Twen-Dee Twen-Dee-Five in Review, Part 1

Time for Dee's annual look back!
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I’m an Elf!

Merry Christmas!!!! Originally posted December 25, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!