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Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Dr. Gwen Patrone

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THE PURPOSE OF BECOMING

How USMC Bootcamp helped me Transition
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THE QUICK FIX MYTH

Happy Holidays!
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IT’S BIKINI TIME!

CRUISING TODAY FOR FOUR DAYS
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Twen-Dee Twen-Dee-Five in Review, Part 2

It's always fun to look back and think "I did that?"
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Twen-Dee Twen-Dee-Five in Review, Part 1

Time for Dee's annual look back!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

Building The Perfect Beast (My Wardrobe)

Our friend Emily inquired about my wardrobe in a recent comment, so here is the story.
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International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Travel

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Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!