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Closing Out 2025

Last look back at the year that was.
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TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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Grace

Our newest bestie....
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Meet Me in St Louis, Part 1

By Tina Davis
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  • The Doctor is In

    Dr. Gwen Patrone

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    TRANS IN THE MILITARY?

    Read Gwen's very unique perspective.
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    When Dysphoria Hits, Don’t Ask “Why” — Ask This Instead…

    A Dysphoria Hacks tactical training...
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    THE YIN/YANG OF GENDER DYNAMICS

    The good doctor shares with us again!
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    Closing Out 2025

    Last look back at the year that was.
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    If At First…….

    If at first you don't succeed.....
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    The Rise Fashion Show

    Video proof that I actually am a model!!
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    Building The Perfect Beast (My Wardrobe)

    Our friend Emily inquired about my wardrobe in a recent comment, so here is the story.
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    International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

    Your girl, back on the runway!
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    A Different Look

    As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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    Travel

    Read our travel diaries

    Events

    Read our event recaps

    Beauty

    Read our beauty posts

    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    A Golden Flash For A Day!

    All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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    The Angel Known as My Wife

    I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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    Rules of The Road

    We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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    This is Hard

    Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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    THE UGLY TRUTH

    If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!