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Recent Posts

THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Nailed It!

Oh my...
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Never Take Anything For Granted

This is effectively my holiday card to my beloved readers. Spread love and the word on Kandi's Land!
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Casual (Thursday and) Friday

My return to The Lake Erie Gala!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

Buy Gwen's Book

Get Gwen's new book: Trans Truth: Your Journey To Completeness on Amazon today!

THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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October’s True Magic: Releasing the Real Me

Editorial comment: I know it's actually November...
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NO MORE PRETENDING

Story time!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Pride 2022 (Dee-Style)

Representing! Originally posted August 7, 2022.
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Detox

Thank you Dee!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!