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Recent Posts

Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Fun of Summer Dresses

Sun-Dee, Fun-Dee!
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THE GENDER PILL

A brief dual gender escape
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MIX: 90’s Homecoming

Joy squared.
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  • The Doctor is In

    Dr. Gwen Patrone

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    THE GENDER PILL

    A brief dual gender escape
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    THE CUT WAS VERY DEEP

    Saturday thoughts...
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    One Tragic Act Does Not Define A Community

    Read this.
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    Dee's Corner

    It's Sun-Dee!

    The Fun of Summer Dresses

    Sun-Dee, Fun-Dee!
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    Flying Pretty

    A great Dee-peat! Originally posted July 24, 2022.
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    On Style

    Glorious Fashion

    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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    The Walk

    Recently, we’ve had “The Shoot” and “The Fitting” which was the prelude now to “The Show”.  The boudoir series continues a bit longer and now ...
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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    Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

    The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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    Travel

    Read our travel diaries

    Events

    Read our event recaps

    Beauty

    Read our beauty posts

    Kandi's Favorites

    A look through the archives

    Who We Are

    Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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    This is Hard

    Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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    The Odd Couple

    If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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    A Golden Flash For A Day!

    All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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    Be…

    My mantra! My masterpiece!
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    The Angel Known as My Wife

    I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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    The Power of “She”

    One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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    The Cat’s Out of The Bag

    More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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    All our favorite things

    We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!