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Recent Posts

Meet Me in St Louis, Part 1

By Tina Davis
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Admiration

Our community has so many different layers, twists and turns.
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In The Beginning…

By Amanda J.
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The Grand Illusion

Welcome to the Grand illusion. Come on in and see what's happening!
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Recent Comments

The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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When Dysphoria Hits, Don’t Ask “Why” — Ask This Instead…

A Dysphoria Hacks tactical training...
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THE YIN/YANG OF GENDER DYNAMICS

The good doctor shares with us again!
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WHAT TRANSITIONING WAS LIKE FOR ME

Tremendous insights...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

If At First…….

If at first you don't succeed.....
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I’ve Got the Blues

Hmmmmm, who could Dee be hanging around with this week? Originally posted September 11, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

The Rise Fashion Show

Video proof that I actually am a model!!
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Building The Perfect Beast (My Wardrobe)

Our friend Emily inquired about my wardrobe in a recent comment, so here is the story.
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International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

Hope you like...
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!