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It is your community. 

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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DESTROY OR DIAMOND?

The Relief Valve Hack from Dysphoria Hacks
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THE PURPOSE OF BECOMING

How USMC Bootcamp helped me Transition
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THE QUICK FIX MYTH

Happy Holidays!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Twen-Dee Twen-Dee-Five in Review, Part 2

It's always fun to look back and think "I did that?"
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Twen-Dee Twen-Dee-Five in Review, Part 1

Time for Dee's annual look back!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

The Rise Fashion Show

Video proof that I actually am a model!!
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Building The Perfect Beast (My Wardrobe)

Our friend Emily inquired about my wardrobe in a recent comment, so here is the story.
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International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!