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Recent Posts

Getting My Christmas On!

Trimming the tree...
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Mr. Jekyll & Ms. Hyde

By Tuesday Mandy
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Homage

Another wonderful holiday gathering.
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Fragile

Yep, Yes!
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Get Gwen's new book: Trans Truth: Your Journey To Completeness on Amazon today!

DON’T BECOME THAT WHICH YOU HATE

Saturday wisdom...
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HOT TUB CONFIDENTIAL

Written this past October.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Fragile

Yep, Yes!
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Hallow-Dee-n 2025

Never a dull moment...
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
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A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!