Welcome to our community.

It is your community. 

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

Help us keep this community going.  If you shop Amazon, all we ask is that you click the link below and help us pay the bills!  Costs you nothing but does help us very much.

Recent Posts

Hallow-Dee-n 2025

Never a dull moment...
Read More →

HOT TUB CONFIDENTIAL

Written this past October.
Read More →

Headshots and AI

Technology freaks me out...
Read More →

My Nonbinary Experience

By Lisa P.
Read More →
The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

Buy Gwen's Book

Get Gwen's new book: Trans Truth: Your Journey To Completeness on Amazon today!

HOT TUB CONFIDENTIAL

Written this past October.
Read More →

THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
Read More →

October’s True Magic: Releasing the Real Me

Editorial comment: I know it's actually November...
Read More →
Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Hallow-Dee-n 2025

Never a dull moment...
Read More →

Halter Dress and Tri-Suit

Sometimes we live interesting lives..... Originally posted August 14, 2022.
Read More →
On Style

Glorious Fashion

International Women’s Air & Space Museum Fashion Show

Your girl, back on the runway!
Read More →

A Different Look

As my years of regularly going out dressed grows longer (nine years in October), my style continues to evolve.  Early on, it was 1950’s housewife; ...
Read More →

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
Read More →

Refresh(ing)

I have returned from my ten week sojourn to Oz, but my wife hasn’t (her return is still TBD, but not likely until early June), ...
Read More →

Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
Read More →

Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
Read More →

Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
Read More →

The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
Read More →

Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
Read More →

The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
Read More →

THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
Read More →

This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
Read More →

All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!