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Confidence, Part 1

Another report from Down Under! Originally posted March 12, 2022.
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YOU’RE SO KINKY

Ever think about how planets warp space and pull stuff toward them? Einstein says that’s gravity. Well, here’s a wild thought: your mind kind of ...
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FROM FEAR TO FIERCE 🌈

I wanted to share something personal about my journey. As a trans woman, especially one who’s tall—like a real tall glass of water—I know what ...
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WE’RE MORE THAN A SECRET 🤐

Why Trans People Deserve Real Connection Hi everyone, I want to talk about something that so many of us in the trans and crossdressing communities ...
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TO EMBRACE OR TO HIDE THE FEMININE WITHIN

It wasn’t so long ago—at least in the scheme of things—that my feminine side was locked away, out of reach and out of mind. Decades ...
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The Genuine Me

By Jocelyn Johnson A recent Kandi’s Land post got me thinking about individual styles. How we dress, our makeup regime, shoes we wear, accessories we ...
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Having THAT Conversation with Your SO

There comes a period in every cross-dresser’s life when the time comes to have THAT conversation with your significant other. It can be stressful; it ...
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The Battle Within: Which Version Are You Feeding?

Every day, we stand at a crossroads, faced with choices that define who we are and who we will become. Inside each of us, a ...
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A Common Question

“What are you using for breast enhancement? It’s definitely working …” From a great friend and a Contributor. I have been asked that question a ...
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BECOMING THE UNICORN 🦄

Changing yourself, in a transgender context, means letting go of what society has taught you and learning what truly helps you transform the person you ...