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The Genuine Me

By Jocelyn Johnson A recent Kandi’s Land post got me thinking about individual styles. How we dress, our makeup regime, shoes we wear, accessories we ...
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Having THAT Conversation with Your SO

There comes a period in every cross-dresser’s life when the time comes to have THAT conversation with your significant other. It can be stressful; it ...
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The Battle Within: Which Version Are You Feeding?

Every day, we stand at a crossroads, faced with choices that define who we are and who we will become. Inside each of us, a ...
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A Common Question

“What are you using for breast enhancement? It’s definitely working …” From a great friend and a Contributor. I have been asked that question a ...
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BECOMING THE UNICORN 🦄

Changing yourself, in a transgender context, means letting go of what society has taught you and learning what truly helps you transform the person you ...
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BECAUSE I’M HAPPY 😁 

I’ve written allot about happiness and surrounding emotions like Joy, Serenity, Harmony etc.  WHY IS HAPPINESS SO IMPORTANT?  Times are tough for those like me. ...
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UNCOVER YOUR BADASS SELF

Do you realize you lead a fierce badass life?   You’ve spent years digging deep to unearth your true self. Your life story is one ...
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“EM”POWERMENT TO “FEMME”POWERMENT 

I’ve often written about taking control of your power. It’s your power unless you give it to someone else willingly.  “EM”powerment can very well be ...
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Bridging Gaps: Perception and Perspective in Gender and Political Communication

In today’s world, communication is more complex than ever, especially when it comes to gender and political issues. Two key concepts that play a big ...
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🌟Your Journey is Unique to You🌟 

As you continue your 2025 resolutions, just a little reminder. You haven’t quit yet, right?   Not everyone will “get” your journey, and that’s okay! ...