A Lovely Friend

Thank you anonymous friend!

June 11, 2025, a wonderful friend paid me a visit! I won’t provide many details in respect to her privacy, but she traveled quite a distance to see me, and I was honored that she did so. This day was one in a long run of days booked to the gills. I was still dealing with extensive truck issues (aka my livelihood) which required figuring out how to pay for it, getting rides or driving back and forth to pick up or drop off vehicles, feeling the cost of the rental necessary to continue our work run up the financial hole day by day. This would have been enough, but I did so while coordinating the time I wanted to spend with my friend as well as with Parade The Circle, medical issues, four upcoming high end charity events, a trip to visit our children and my most recent movie premier. Oh yeah, plus I had work to do, household duties, on and on and on…

I stepped back for a few hours and went to the beach again. It was a necessary mental break, essentially a few hour oasis in this two plus week span of activity. And I do LOVE this bikini! I am trying to do this as frequently as possible this year as I know my body is soon no longer going to allow me to do things like this. Simply reaching behind my neck to fasten a necklace is a difficult proposition these days and I know I won’t soon be able to walk around like this much longer. PLEASE NOTE: do not do as I do. I did not eat a morsel for almost 48 hours, dropping about five pounds to look as “good” (I see ALL the flaws) as I looked. All I will say, it was a near 90-degree day, the beach as packed and I moved around a lot, simply enjoying walking on the beach, through the waterfront, like this. My drug of choice.

I then threw on the sundress you see here and had a lovely get-to-know-you dinner with my friend. I am fortunate on so many fronts, challenged like everyone on the planet on other fronts. This blog, as I have said before, forces an introspection that I probably would not otherwise have and without this platform and the need for content, you would not know about (and probably don’t really care about as you all have your own issues).

“Do you have a cigarette?”

I was enjoying a Fathead’s Bumbleberry (local craft beer, very refreshing as you see above), sitting at a picnic table in my bikini and I was asked that by a “sister” in the wild. Believe me, it was obvious that we were “sisters”. Why on Earth did she think I had smokes? Yeah, I get the connection. At least she left me with a compliment on my swimsuit.


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  1. Kandi, you are blessed, but you’ve put in the work for it. It’s always wonderful to see the fruits of the effort you put forth. I love this story and have thought many times of being able to do the same as this anonymous friend if I could. Whether you think so or not, you have been a blessing to me and I’m sure many others. Though I’m not online much at all anymore, this is one of the few places I always try to visit when I have the chance as it seems to bring a little freedom, comfort and clarity to a life that otherwise feels rather boxed in by tradition and just the everyday repetitive monotony of life. I so greatly wish to be able to break it up by spending more time as the woman Ib know I am inside. It is the most wonderful and freeing feeling to be able slip away from that daily grind and revel in those moments of femininity. Though seldom able to do so physically, I feel it so much when I come here and read each post and the fascinating comments shared. Those are special moments that bring back the feeling of femininity, regardless of the current outward appearance. When I visit this site, I am for all intents and purposes a girl and can let that feeling free as I read or comment on what is shared. And everyone here is a sister to me as well. I really really love that feeling and can’t be grateful enough for places like this where I can experience it. Thank you!

  2. I could feel the love and joy wrapped into those moments you shared, even through all the chaos swirling around you. I don’t know how you juggle so much with so much grace—but I admire the hell out of it.

    Also? That beach day? Total goddess energy. I get what you mean about savoring those moments while we still can. And your sundress sounds absolutely adorable (I might need to raid your closet at some point—just saying 😘).

    Sending you hugs and sunshine, beautiful. And thank you for always sharing so honestly. You make the rest of us feel a little less alone in all this.

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