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Reflections

Perhaps I Should Have Paid More Attention at School

By Amanda J. My schooldays ended almost half a century ago.  In the intervening period , practically every piece of knowledge that my long suffering teachers managed to ...
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Fashion

Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Out and About

Nif-Dee Fif-Dee

My GG BFF Michelle turned half a century in December (no, she doesn’t look it) and at the time I promised her a nice birth-Dee ...
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Advice

The Battle Within: Which Version Are You Feeding?

Every day, we stand at a crossroads, faced with choices that define who we are and who we will become. Inside each of us, a ...
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Out and About

My Improvisational Birthday

Another time I am rewarded for being out, visible and proud! Originally posted July 22, 2021.
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Out and About

Art Museum Squared

Upcoming is the art museum’s Parade the Circle. I have been asked and agreed to participate with the museum’s Women’s Council (WC) in this event. ...
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Advice

A Common Question

“What are you using for breast enhancement? It’s definitely working …” From a great friend and a Contributor. I have been asked that question a ...
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Life

Meet Michelle

I am honored to share this video, from the TransCanada Project, of our great friend, Michelle Backhouse. Read about Michelle here, here and here!
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Out and About

Out: Part 3

By Maddie Smith I hadn’t intended to write a part three in this series until thinking about my day afterwards. When I stopped and contemplated ...
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Out and About

Won-Dee Woman

I was in drab in Australia at a Salvo’s and I came across a Wonder Woman dress hanging on the racks. My first reaction was ...
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Advice

BECOMING THE UNICORN 🦄

Changing yourself, in a transgender context, means letting go of what society has taught you and learning what truly helps you transform the person you ...
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Out and About

Current State of Affairs

I have been asked to be reflective and journalize my feelings for a possible television documentary. Whether or not this actually happens, only time will ...
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