May 7, 2025, no great story, just a wonderful day being me. I signed up for a seminar on internet stuff at a wonderful co-working space in Akron. I have a great interest in the topic, SEO. I also have tried and tried to see Bounce Information Hub for various events, but my schedule wouldn’t allow. So, this was kismet.



I also ran a whole bunch of errands. Nothing better than being dressed like this, just doing things. Hit a bank to make a credit card payment. There I was complimented on my “cute shoes”. Then another bank to make a deposit. I then attended the seminar and interacted with many, asked questions during the seminar, was just lil’ ol’ me. Then I went to the post office, a Hallmark store and finally, feeling myself a bit, had one single drink (my first in a week) and headed home. I did love that while sitting at the bar alone, a few ladies walked in and one smiled at me and said my earrings looked so fun! Stuff like that really fills my soul. I was a good girl…only one drink.



Two quick stories. After extensive research and at great expense, I am attempting to get “sober” by getting high. Okay, not quite. I have invested in a number of THC/CBD beverages as a means of not drinking as much and to feel better. I am convinced my borderline alcoholism has led to many of the increased aches and pains I have had of late. The morning hangovers had become way too commonplace. I am experimenting with how THC affects me, what I can and cannot do when consuming these and how to make a good THC cocktail. I do feel less achy, and my body feels different (TMI, so I’ll leave it at that). So far, so goooooooodddddd……
Second story, I have done this to great success before. JCPenney is having a big clearance sale. I went to the shoe department and crushed it. Those cute shoes you see above, plus three more pairs were acquired at about 90% MSRP, then BOGO. Four pair of shoes that retailed for about $250 I got for $30. Not bad…damn cute!
May 8, 2025, back to work on my flower costume with the Women’s Council. I met more of the other ladies involved and I fit in seamlessly. I made one friend who I can see hanging out and/or going out for a girl’s night together. We talked and shared quite a bit. I went everyday woman with my outfit with consideration to the cool temps.






I made my hat, got the rest of my outfit and enjoyed my time. I hit a beverage store and a grocery store on my way home.
How do you like my chapeau?


It seems like feast or famine of late. This was a feast week. Four times out in five days. The THC, when consumed as I consume it, seems to drop all of my male inhibitions. I also have fewer aches and pains and sleep very well. A complete life changer. I feel completely in a female mindset when I am feeling the effects of this wonderful drug. We’ll pick up the third and fourth outings in the next post and how THC allowed me to really not give a shit about what anyone thought of me and how I was rewarded for that.
10 Responses
You look amazing! Great sense of style… As usual!
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Kandi,
This is a great post about wonderful outings. You look marvellous.
I am happy to hear about your greatly reduced alcohol consumption. Well done.
Love,
Jocelyn
Kandi, the skirt suit is fabulous, I love the cute shoes too. As with any drug (including alcohol), please be careful with using THC. The initial highs may not last, leading to addictive actions. I love you the way you are.
Fabulous as always my dear, and yes be careful with the THC as has been said
I’m struggling a bit with my fem side not exactly sure what it means but truly having no close GF to share Rachael with might be a part of it
Love ya Rach
I am being careful but cannot deny the fewer aches and pains and now logging a good 8 hours of sleep, never possible before. Love you all here!
Dear Kandi,
WE ALL HAVE CHALLENGES TO OVERCOME and YOU SEEM TO BE HANDLING YOURS WITH PURPOSE, GRACE AND STYLE.
GREAT TRACK RECORD. KEEP IT UP FRIEND.
MARIE ANNE GREENE
Thank you, Marie, means a lot… ❤️
I love your outfits Kandi, your fashion sense is outstanding. I am feeling a lot more aches and pain now that I have turned 70. Just eat right, exercise. I can still hike in the mountains 8 to 10 miles.
I always say, if you want to keep moving, you have to keep moving! Thanks, Juls!!