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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

Two-For Saturday

Except that it's three...
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STEM Goes Red for Girls! (2022)

I am blessed. Originally posted March 23, 2022.
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$5 Fashion Shoot – Dress Three

Some at-home fun!
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Crazy Lucky

A tremendously underappreciated band.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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Two-For Saturday

Except that it's three...
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Gwen Time!

Editorial comment: The second post was written prior to Mothers' Day
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It’s Saturday…

Time to think!
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Casino Royale, Part 2

The dramatic conclusion! Originally posted April 16, 2023.
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Casino Royale, Part 1

Our Crocodile Dun-Dee getting it done, again! Originally posted April 9, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!