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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

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Recent Posts

My Aching Back……

Ever have a great day and a painful day all at the same time? Originally posted October 27, 2021.
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Whatcha See is Whatcha Get

Sort of the story of my life...
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Getting Out – 2 – Why Not?

By Amanda J.
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Jamie’s Cryin’

Oh woh woh Jamie's cryin' Oh woh woh Jamie's cryin'
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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ARE YOU LIBERAL OR LIBERATED?

Grab a cup of coffee and read on!
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WHEN WILL YOU LIVE VERSUS HOW YOU’RE LIVING NOW?

The good doctor is in!
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CAN SEXUAL ATTRACTION BE ACQUIRED?

Do I want to "DO" her, or "BE" her?
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Come Together

...over me.
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Fun, Run, Fun

Cray, cray...
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux Two

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An Open Letter to Our Wives

This essay is my proudest accomplishment in my life, literally, outside of anything associated with my family.
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Five

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This is the conclusion of our photo shoots. Hope you enjoyed!
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Reasons vs. Excuses

Go out, live your life! Let's revisit this essay.
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A Golden Flash For A Day!

All I can hear in my head is "Stayin' Alive" when looking at this photo.
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Sacrifice

Taking a deep dive on a recent comment.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Redux One

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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!