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Real World Experiences, Real Honesty.
Share With Us, All Are Welcome.

It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Feel It Still

Might be over now, but I feel it still
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An Interview With……Me!

Someone actually wanted to interview me! Originally posted March 9, 2022.
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Acceptance?

This post is about being accepted by the world as well as a friend who shares how she accepted herself. Same word, two different interpretations.
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I’ve Escaped From Prison

Our girl in the UK, always making us think! Originally posted April 25, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

#Transpreneur

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A Gwen and A Gwen and A Gwen

Triple the fun!
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Four Gwens for the Fourth!

Happy Independence Day!
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Double Gwen

More to think about.
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

The Big Easy

Our world traveler representing!
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Dee-isms

😊 Originally posted March 12, 2023.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

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Travel

Read our travel diaries

Events

Read our event recaps

Beauty

Read our beauty posts

Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Who We Are

Introducing Kandi's Land to anyone new to the site.
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Thank You For Being a Friend

Happy Thanksgiving all! I am eternally thankful for this community.
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Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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A Very Sherry Christmas 2025

My masterpiece.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!