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It is your community. We have every type of lady represented here to share what we experience in our real lives, in the real world, every day.

Kandi’s Land is and will always be here where we gather, love and support each other.

No one ever said this was easy, but if we lean on each other, we can make a difference!

Be smart, be appropriate, be confident and above all, be visible!

We change minds one at a time.

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Recent Posts

Easter Sunday (On a Snowy March Saturday)

Originally posted March 24, 2022.
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The Genesis of Kandi! Part 2

Get your seat belt on, we're going into the way back machine!
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I’m Only Happy When It Rains

Akron Pride and two tremendous friends!
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Awakening

Originally posted August 1, 2022.
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The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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WHEN DID I KNOW IT WAS TIME? +1+1

Here's a double!
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Memorial Day: The day I wrote a blank check… +1+1

Gwen keeps bring it!
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EVERY BLOOM TELLS ITS OWN DAMN STORY + 2

Read on...
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

Walk Away Renee

Bucket list item ✅ Originally posted May 14, 2023.
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Don’t Be Stoopid

An important message!
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter One

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor! This series will run for the next few Mondays. It is me, flaws (and they are not insignificant) and ...
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This is Hard

Without any prior thought, I sat down, and this poured out of me.
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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The Cat’s Out of The Bag

More life lessons learned and shared with you all.
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Three

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!