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Recent Posts

The Thrill of Victory and the Agony of (Temporary) Defeat!

Making lemonade out of lemons...
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Lowdown

The dirty lowdown...
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Taking The Pill

By Amanda J.
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Do It Again

Here we go, back, Jack...
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Recent Comments

The Doctor is In

Dr. Gwen Patrone

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THE YIN/YANG OF GENDER DYNAMICS

The good doctor shares with us again!
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WHAT TRANSITIONING WAS LIKE FOR ME

Tremendous insights...
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DESTROY OR DIAMOND?

The Relief Valve Hack from Dysphoria Hacks
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Dee's Corner

It's Sun-Dee!

I’ve Got the Blues

Hmmmmm, who could Dee be hanging around with this week? Originally posted September 11, 2022.
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Up In The Air

You know who, hanging with you know who, again! Love it!! Originally posted August 28, 2022.
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On Style

Glorious Fashion

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Travel

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Events

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Beauty

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Kandi's Favorites

A look through the archives

THE UGLY TRUTH

If you read nothing else here ever, THIS is a must read!
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The June Cleaver Collective

I bare my soul a bit here....... Originally posted July 13, 2021.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Two

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Boudoir Shoot – Black and White

Okay folks, I paid a lot of money for these pictures, and I am infinitely proud of them, so here is the black and white ...
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Rules of The Road

We haven't run this since April 2021. It is the bedrock of Kandi's Land, so let's revisit it.
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Boudoir Shoot 2025 – Chapter Four

The spectacular work of Mikayla Naylor!
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Be…

My mantra! My masterpiece!
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The Odd Couple

If this doesn't make you smile, you have no soul...
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All our favorite things

We love shopping, so we put together a list of our favorites!