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Reflections

Authenticity

Originally run June 21, 2021.
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Experiences

Perchance She Sleepeth

By Amanda J. In1898, a narrow gauge railway linking the towns of Lynton and Barnstaple in Devon, South West England, was opened.  By all accounts, it ...
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Out and About

Succumbing To The Need

Scratching the itch. Falling off the wagon. Going on a bender.
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Travel

New York Cit-Dee, Dee Three

I’ve always enjoyed musicals, dating back to my youth when my mom and my aunt would take my siblings and me to the St. Louis ...
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Reflections

Can’t We All Return to Being Human Again? 

Amen, sister!
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Out and About

Pretty Special!

Originally posted April 21, 2021
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Reflections

The Wo(man) In The Glass

Originally run on the old blog and then again here August 30, 2021. Sadly some of the pictures referenced in the post were lost to ...
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Out and About

16 Days…

This was the span of time between my recent movie shoot and this day, October 23, 2024. Kandi was nowhere to be found. There were ...
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Reflections

From Transphobia to Self-Esteem

Damned if Lisa doesn't make me think every time she graces us with a post! Originally posted May 31, 2021.
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Fiction

🍥A Kandi’s Land Mystery🍥

How to survive a pandemic and maintain some level of sanity. Originally posted July 1, 2021.
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Travel

New York Cit-Dee, Dee Two

With our son living in Brooklyn, and being tennis fans (attending the US Open), my wife and I have visited New York multiple times over ...
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Observations

THE POWER OF 1%

What If You Could Become Just 1% Better?  The Power of Tiny Gains in the Transgender Journey During my decades of writing, stage presentations and ...
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