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Reflections

New Descriptions for the Real Me

By Lisa P. I have two deep-seated concerns these days relating to my gender identity. First, I fear that I am the cause of significant ...
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Kandi's FavoritesObservations

The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.
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Out and About

Twen-Dee Twen-Dee Four

As we unveil 2025, a last look at 2024…. Like Kandi wrote recently, I take photos every time I dress. A quick scroll and count ...
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Advice

WANT THE BEST 2025 EVER? DO THIS… 

I’m sitting in the Las Vegas airport wanting for my flight home. It’s December 1st and 2025 is approaching. I’m deciding what my focus is ...
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Travel

Travelogue – DC Day 3 and Post Script

The Grand Finale!
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Travel

Travelogue – DC Day 2

A long, glorious Day Two in DC!
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Travel

Travelogue – DC Day 1 and Prior

We take the show to the Nation's Capitol! Day one.....
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Kandi's Favorites

Top Ten List!

The Top Ten All-Time Posts since the beginning of Kandi's Land 2.0 April 1, 2021.
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Out and About

New Years Eve, Eve, Eve, Eve

AKA December 28, 2024. The nexus of opportunity in terms of free time; my wife working (I do go out when she is off, but ...
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Experiences

Crazy Eights

Back in October I celebrated my eighth anniversary of going out regularly. By “celebrated” I mean I didn’t do anything special as Dee–because I was ...
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Advice

🎁 A Powerful Gift for You as We Step into 2025 

This is a long post. Please don’t disregard it. It’s my gift to you. Read it only when you have time to focus on what ...
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Reflections

Current State of Mind II

Yeah, it’s almost New Years. So we always seem to look back and look forward more so than usual. ______________________________________________________________________________ I received the following message(s) ...
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