Dear friends,
In light of the recent political upheavals and the shifting narratives surrounding transgender rights, I wanted to reach out to you with a heartfelt message of hope and perseverance.
As we face these turbulent times, I am reminded of the powerful teachings of Mahatma Gandhi, whose philosophy of passive resistance and non-violence can guide us toward meaningful change.
The two keywords, there are “meaningful change”. Change for the sake of change does not work long term. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Those changed against their will are of the same opinion still”.
Meaningful change must not come from the outside in, it must come from the inside out.
First and foremost, let’s respond to challenges with the strength of non-violence.
There is immense power in gentleness; it’s through calm and composed actions that we can create spaces for genuine dialogue and understanding. This isn’t just an abstract ideal—it’s a practical approach to engaging with those who may not yet see the world through our eyes.
It’s not that we’re attempting to change beliefs, simply understanding. First seek to understand, then be understood.
However, it goes both ways. Through calm, rational, empathetic understanding, we can begin to have a functioning society rather than rash, loud, rhetoric which drives wedges and anger more than it builds bridges.
In these moments, education becomes our strongest tool. I urge each of you to share your stories and experiences. Let us illuminate misconceptions with the light of truth and empathy.
These personal narratives are the threads that weave a tapestry of understanding and solidarity.
Despite the polarization in today’s political climate, there are values that unite us all. Let us focus on dignity, respect, and the basic human rights to which everyone is entitled.
By seeking common ground, we can work towards solutions that protect and uplift everyone, creating a society that everyone can thrive in. I encourage you to stay informed and engaged, to continue participating in peaceful activism, and to share your visions for an inclusive future.
Change is rarely swift, but with patience and persistence, we can drive it forward. Remember, every small step you take contributes to a larger movement towards justice and acceptance.
Looking back at the past decade, let’s honor the progress we’ve made by pressing forward, not with division, but with hope, unity, and love. Together, we can build a future where all individuals are truly valued and celebrated for who they are.
Stay strong, stay united, and let’s inspire change with every step we take.
Let’s continue to inspire change, peace by peace.
With love and solidarity, Dr. Gwen Patrone
4 Responses
GWEN
MY THOUGHS..
SIMPLY STATED > LIVE AND LET LIVE….LISTEN AND DIGEST…..SUGGEST RATHER THAN DEMAND…..
I A DISCUSSION USE “HOWEVER” NOT “BUT.”..
MARY ANNE GREENE
Gwen,
Your words are an inspiration , while the situation isn’t as bad in the UK those words still ring true . As usual it’s a tiny minority we really need to convince , the majority simply want to live a peaceful life , as Marie comments many are happy to live and let live . It’s also important to remember we do have non-transgender allies who value human rights and stand by them in our defence .
As I commented before much of what is happening is a passing storm not a wind of change , thankfully storms pass peace , calmness and sense return we just have to be patient .
The political climate to me as one who is actually conservative is very troubling to me
I don’t like the in your face agenda many on the LGBQT side use. While I understand some of that I don’t feel it’s helpful
Also this complete agenda to erase as it were all trans people from life is wrong
We love our country and want what’s best for all
I hope we can find a way to get along with all
Rachel,
The question is why , what threat do we seriously pose ? The bigger question is where does it end , do they backtrack on gay people , or what colour your skin is ? The list could go on .
Loving your home country is wonderful but others interpret that love in different ways , some spell it GREED !
On a personal level I posted recently about a lady who saw me exiting a ladies toilet and asked why , don’t I have a penis ? I thought after what rules does she apply to other people , where does she draw the line on what parts a woman might have had surgically removed , when in her eyes do they become less of a woman ? The other question it raised was what do these people get out of it ? A sense of control , some sort of perversion or just a plain bully . In her case I looked her straight in the eye and calmly told her I didn’t have one , OK a white lie but it put the ball in her court to prove it otherwise .