Finding your TRUTH can make life incredibly exciting and full of purpose for you. Imagine waking up every day with a sense of excitement about who you truly are. Instead of dragging through your week, waiting for the weekend for relief, knowing your truth gives meaning to every day.
When you understand your truth, planning your day becomes much easier. You gain clarity on what matters most to you, helping guide your decisions and actions.
Let me give an example of a friend whom I’ll name Alex who always felt out of place in their assigned gender. Once Alex embraced their truth as a transgender man, he felt motivated to meet other trans people and find a supportive community. This connection made each day feel more purposeful, as they engaged in discussions and activities that celebrated their identity.
Making decisions also becomes simpler.
Take another example of a person I’ll name as Jamie. Jamie realized that her true self was as a transgender woman. Before coming out, she often felt torn between the way she looked and how she wanted to live.
Once she found her truth, Jamie started making choices that aligned with her identity—like changing her wardrobe to reflect her true self and seeking out opportunities where she felt comfortable. This clarity allowed her to confidently approach conversations about her transition with friends and family.
When you live your truth, that sense of dissatisfaction or questioning begins to fade away. You start to feel more happiness and contentment with your life.
Both Alex and Jamie discovered this contentment as they embraced their true selves.
For Alex, engaging with supportive friends and participating in community events made him feel genuine joy, while Jamie experienced a deep sense of relief and happiness when she finally shared her journey with those closest to her.
Their lives became simplified.
Living your truth brings a newfound enthusiasm for facing each day. As you work towards goals that align with your true self, like Alex who aimed to become an advocate for transgender rights, you’ll see real progress, feeling fulfilled in your efforts. Jamie also felt excited about pursuing her career goals, knowing that she was living authentically. This sense of purpose pushed her to seek out job opportunities that welcomed her authentic self.
People are naturally drawn to those who know and live their truth. This authenticity is captivating, making you more interesting and engaging to others. Alex found that his friends admired his courage, which strengthened their bonds. Meanwhile, Jamie’s openness about her journey inspired others, making her a source of support for those questioning their own identities.
Your creativity will also flourish as you navigate living your truth.
For Alex, overcoming challenges and advocating for others sparked new ideas and projects that he had never considered before. Jamie discovered a talent for writing and began sharing her experiences online, using her creativity to connect with others and raise awareness.
DON’T DRIFT THROUGH LIFE
Many people drift through life without truly considering what they want it to be about, especially when it involves navigating the complexities of gender identity. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Discovering and living your truth as a transgender person means each day is filled with meaningful and exciting experiences.
Remember, you only have one life to live, so commit to living it authentically and embracing who you truly are!
Dr. Gwen Patrone
My book TRANS TRUTH Your Journey to Completeness is available on Amazon and Audible
