As Pride Month begins, I’ve been thinking about what it really means to me—especially as a transgender woman, a former US Marine Sergeant, and someone who leans conservative on many issues.
For me, Pride isn’t just about rainbows or parades although they are so much fun! It’s about honoring the courage it takes to live authentically, no matter where you come from or what your beliefs are.
The courage to be honest…
My journey taught me that true strength comes from being honest about who you are—even when it’s hard, even when not everyone agrees. Courage is about facing fear head on and doing it anyway.
I’m proud of my service to my country. I’m proud of my story. And I’m proud to stand with so many others who show that love of country and love of self aren’t at odds. I’m proud of who and what I am. Often misunderstood, true, but this will change, one person at a time.
As a country, we have a ways to go, but just as my journey of becoming will never end, so too will the country I love ever be a work in progress. This idea of liberty and freedom is for all, including those like me, will never end.
To me, Pride is about respect—respect for ourselves, and for each other.
No matter your background or politics, we all deserve to live honestly and with dignity.
That’s what Pride means to me.
Happy Pride Month!
Dr. Gwen Patrone
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I think a lot of us—especially those of us still figuring out where we fit—need reminders like this. That Pride isn’t just celebration and sparkle (though I do love a good glitter moment), it’s also about courage. About showing up as yourself, even when you’re scared. Even when it doesn’t feel like you’ve “earned” it yet.
As someone who hasn’t transitioned but still identifies as trans, Pride can feel… complicated. Like I’m not sure if I belong, or if I’m “trans enough” to claim it. Some days, I don’t even feel proud. But maybe just being honest, even in the messy in-between, is something to be proud of. Even if I don’t feel it yet.