By Rachael L.
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For many here I don’t know any of the ladies personally but I know as most here I feel that special connection.
I’ve never full understood my desire my need or whatever drives me to be feminine but I don’t try any longer because it’s just who I am.
God gives us many things in our lives and even though this side to us is very different we all find ways to deal with it.
This site definitely inspired me to get out of my house some 7 or 8 years ago and these days it’s quite natural for me.
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Now my usual full en-fem day is Wednesday mornings when I shop for groceries.
I rarely shop for clothes en fem anymore just because I’ve been there done that
It’s almost like a ritual, I enjoy just being a normal woman blending in I hope even though I’m 6”2 into the world.
Now most of time every day I’m usually dressed in some kind of feminine clothes but nothing too flashy.
I’m very fluid at work wearing ladies tops and jeans and yes I always wear makeup.
My job is very accepting of this and so it makes it easy.
So anyway this is kinda my story and these are a few older pictures of me and than one of me where I attended a friends wedding en-fem.
Rachael
6 Responses
Thank you for sharing Rachael. I love all of your photos.
Looking good.
Jocelyn
Thank you Jocelyn, you’re so very kind.
Of course these are a few years old and as Kandi says we are not as young as we use to be
Rachel,
It’s so good to read your post , you really need to write more . Sharing stories are always worth telling , if they inspire just one then it’s been worth the telling , especially if you have some great pictures .
Thank you Teresa your always so kind and I have really very few stories I truly just enjoy being me
Hi Rach,
Thank you for your post and enabling me to get to know you a little bit. It’s so nice to be able to go to work as your true self and be accepted. What a difference from how it was not all that long ago.
All your pics are lovely and the happiness inside of you is very evident in each one.
Trish ❤️
Thank you Trish, yes it took me time to realize this was just a part of me and I could never explain it so I quit trying
I try my best to represent this community so as not to bring about anything negative