Reflections

Reflections are our serious thoughts or consideration. Contemplation, deliberation, pondering, meditation, musing. Simply, what is on our minds.

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She’s Back – 1: Looking Back

By Amanda J. I’ve read quite a few trans-related things recently that have made me feel a little sad but none more so than the ...
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Navigating Change with Grace and Unity

Dear friends,  In light of the recent political upheavals and the shifting narratives surrounding transgender rights, I wanted to reach out to you with a ...
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Way Back Machine

Some moldy-oldies from the archives, most Flickr favorites. No reason to post these other than beaming with pride, sad for the passing of time. And ...
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Lisa, Lisa….

A Lisa twin spin! Her first ever post and a delightful recent story. Originally posted September 20, 2021.
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The Endless Struggle

Why?
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A Decade in The Books

Objects in mirror are closer than they appear
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She Knows

A brilliantly written essay by my great friend, Chynna Angel Douglas. It was posted on her Facebook page about a year ago and reprinted here ...
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Why I Do This

This one will speak for itself. Originally run January 3, 2022.
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The Angel Known as My Wife

I haven't run this in three years. It was one of the first meaningful things I ever wrote for the blog, so we'll take a ...
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Passing

Let's revisit an old essay, these many years later, I stand by every word.