Reflections

Reflections are our serious thoughts or consideration. Contemplation, deliberation, pondering, meditation, musing. Simply, what is on our minds.

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Perhaps I Should Have Paid More Attention at School

By Amanda J. My schooldays ended almost half a century ago.  In the intervening period , practically every piece of knowledge that my long suffering teachers managed to ...
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She’s Back – 3: Looking Forward

By Amanda J. Last time, as I chronicled my efforts to figure out exactly how ‘Amanda’ fitted into my life, I talked about an interview ...
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😱WHY DO PEOPLE HATE ME?🥹

I’m a transgender male to female, and I also happen to be a dad of a transgender female to male. As a former US Marine, ...
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She’s Back – 2: Looking Inward

By Amanda J. My last post started with a declaration that I’m not a woman and ended with me declaring that I was ‘messed up’ ...
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She’s Back – 1: Looking Back

By Amanda J. I’ve read quite a few trans-related things recently that have made me feel a little sad but none more so than the ...
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Navigating Change with Grace and Unity

Dear friends,  In light of the recent political upheavals and the shifting narratives surrounding transgender rights, I wanted to reach out to you with a ...
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Way Back Machine

Some moldy-oldies from the archives, most Flickr favorites. No reason to post these other than beaming with pride, sad for the passing of time. And ...
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Lisa, Lisa….

A Lisa twin spin! Her first ever post and a delightful recent story. Originally posted September 20, 2021.
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The Endless Struggle

Why?
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A Decade in The Books

Objects in mirror are closer than they appear