Reflections

Reflections are our serious thoughts or consideration. Contemplation, deliberation, pondering, meditation, musing. Simply, what is on our minds.

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Winter Soiree

December 5, 2024, the big holiday celebration for two organizations which I am a member, Plexus LGBT & Allied Chamber of Commerce and The International ...
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One Last Try

By Amanda “Mandy” J. My last few posts have chronicled the struggles with this side of myself that have been ongoing through most of 2024.  Far ...
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Some Like It Hot

Damn, she looks so happy… Have a seat here before we all gather with family and friends to give thanks for our blessings. I know, ...
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Seven Years of Kandi’s Land!

This was not even remotely a thought seven years ago... Who knew I could even string a sentence together?
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Authenticity

Originally run June 21, 2021.
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Can’t We All Return to Being Human Again? 

Amen, sister!
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The Wo(man) In The Glass

Originally run on the old blog and then again here August 30, 2021. Sadly some of the pictures referenced in the post were lost to ...
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From Transphobia to Self-Esteem

Damned if Lisa doesn't make me think every time she graces us with a post! Originally posted May 31, 2021.
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✨ The Mirror vs. Reality ✨ 

When we look in the mirror, we see a reflection shaped by our own perceptions—our insecurities, our past experiences, and our self-judgment.  But the way ...
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My Transgender Journey: Rediscovering Gwen at 59

This one is important...