Reflections

Reflections are our serious thoughts or consideration. Contemplation, deliberation, pondering, meditation, musing. Simply, what is on our minds.

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Passing

Let's revisit an old essay, these many years later, I stand by every word.
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When Something Has To Give

By Amanda J. If ever there was a word that defined my life, or at least the part of it that you would recognise, it’s ...
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WHY YOUR WORLDVIEW IS VITAL TO YOUR HAPPINESS 

Have you ever noticed how some people seem to radiate joy, while others just seem to be stuck in a gloomy mood? What’s the deal ...
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New Descriptions for the Real Me

By Lisa P. I have two deep-seated concerns these days relating to my gender identity. First, I fear that I am the cause of significant ...
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Current State of Mind

Yeah, it’s almost New Years. So we always seem to look back and look forward more so than usual. ______________________________________________________________________________ I received the following message(s) ...
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Winter Soiree

December 5, 2024, the big holiday celebration for two organizations which I am a member, Plexus LGBT & Allied Chamber of Commerce and The International ...
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One Last Try

By Amanda “Mandy” J. My last few posts have chronicled the struggles with this side of myself that have been ongoing through most of 2024.  Far ...
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Some Like It Hot

Damn, she looks so happy… Have a seat here before we all gather with family and friends to give thanks for our blessings. I know, ...
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Seven Years of Kandi’s Land!

This was not even remotely a thought seven years ago... Who knew I could even string a sentence together?
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Authenticity

Originally run June 21, 2021.