Observations

Observation is the act of recognizing and noting a fact or occurrence often from things they have experienced or witnessed.

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My Life Doesn’t Suck

I kind of stole that phrase from Joe Maddon, who used to be the manager of the (hated) Chicago Cubs baseball team.  During the 2016 ...
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SHOULD WE (TRANS) BE AFRAID?

In the USMC I’ve learned how to temper fear and live with fear as part of life. I call it “Domesticating Fear”.  Everything doesn’t need ...
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My Experiences In Public

My reality check.
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Perfection is Overrated

Last posted here September 9, 2021.
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Relationships

Laying it out there..... Past thoughts, new obsessions.
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THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM 

I would like to address a controversial and sensitive topic that many shy away from due to its potential to spark intense debates.  However, I ...
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Compliments

Originally posted August 9, 2021.
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How Real Are We?

By Cristy Garcia I found a Flickr post by my friend Cristy’s that we did not take a look at here. With Cristy’s blessings, we ...
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A Cold and Snowy Ohio Day

By Sherry Greer You’ve seen me write this before…Kandi always wants me to write more about the opportunities that I have but I won’t write ...
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The Power of “She”

One of the very first essays I ever wrote. A favorite rerun one more time.