Gwen Patrone

CrossdresserKandiKandi's Land

THEY’RE STARING AT YOU!

My wife loves to remind me: “They’re staring at you.” And guess what? She’s absolutely right. When you’re 6’6” in heels and sailing on the ...
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CrossdresserKandiKandi's Land

DISCOVER YOUR TRUTH

A friend was having a tough time and I asked if she had read any of my many posts regarding empowerment. She mentioned she had ...
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The Battle Within: Which Version Are You Feeding?

Every day, we stand at a crossroads, faced with choices that define who we are and who we will become. Inside each of us, a ...
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BECOMING THE UNICORN 🦄

Changing yourself, in a transgender context, means letting go of what society has taught you and learning what truly helps you transform the person you ...
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CrossdresserKandiKandi's Land

😱WHY DO PEOPLE HATE ME?🥹

I’m a transgender male to female, and I also happen to be a dad of a transgender female to male. As a former US Marine, ...
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BECAUSE I’M HAPPY 😁 

I’ve written allot about happiness and surrounding emotions like Joy, Serenity, Harmony etc.  WHY IS HAPPINESS SO IMPORTANT?  Times are tough for those like me. ...
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THE TOLERANT INTOLERANT

Today, I’ve been thinking about something that hits close to home: the idea of being a “tolerant intolerant.” It’s a bit of a confusing term ...
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UNCOVER YOUR BADASS SELF

Do you realize you lead a fierce badass life?   You’ve spent years digging deep to unearth your true self. Your life story is one ...
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“EM”POWERMENT TO “FEMME”POWERMENT 

I’ve often written about taking control of your power. It’s your power unless you give it to someone else willingly.  “EM”powerment can very well be ...
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CrossdresserKandiKandi's Land

Navigating Change with Grace and Unity

Dear friends,  In light of the recent political upheavals and the shifting narratives surrounding transgender rights, I wanted to reach out to you with a ...
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